
We’re all changing.
We do it, maybe, once or twice. Maybe one million and one times. I wasn’t even who I was when I woke up by 4 pm. Now, here I am at 10 pm a completely different version of myself. It happens like that. The changes will be plentiful.
Some will be good, others challenging. Some will bring out the beauty in you and some will bring out the ugly. Don’t you run from your ugliness. That ugliness is yours, therefore it is special and has a beauty that only you can harness. Make it beautiful because you can have the audacity to do that.
Even if no one else around you has learned how to do that yet. Accept your phases, even the ugly ones, you need them. Who you are is temporary, and so is who you will be. Your seasons will forever change until there’s nothing left to change. Even then you’ll go on to be another form of another version of yourself. Acceptance is your key here.
You can’t fight the change, it’s happening every day. Your experience of who you are is as real as you will ever get. Don’t take that from yourself. You are as permanent as the moment because who you are is temporary. So, don’t take you away from yourself,
Not even for a second.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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