This is very important because we want to ask ourselves, what do we want for the year to be like. How do we want it to look? What do we want to achieve? What do we want to change? And what are we grateful for now and then? When we begin to understand that we are the architect, the planner of our own life, we begin to realize the power that we truly have. When we realize that we realize that we can change everything.
So what are you going to do this coming year? What are you going to change and what are you going to keep? What are the things that needs to be changed, what are the things that you’re realizing right now, that you want to change whether it’s your personal life, your career, your purpose charity work that you’re doing, things that you haven’t been completely honest with or authentic with, or things that you have to come to terms with this year?
Some people call it a bucket list, other people call it goals, dreams, childhood desires, but also the things you really want to see yourself doing. The things you want to achieve.
On the other side, what do you want to keep? What are you grateful for? What do you want to keep solid through this year. Remember that, and keep it cognitive when you’re thinking about the things that you want to change. You want to also think about the fact that you have a vision. So we’re thinking about what we want to change and what we want to keep. We want to create a vision board and I know that you’ve heard that probably on several different videos and several different people, but you want to create a vision board to reinforce what it is that you want to create for yourself that you don’t already have.
I have a vision board that I’m creating right now. I’m creating things that I want to do, the things that I’ve always wanted to as a child. The things that really matter to me. Some people call it a bucket list, other people call it goals, dreams, childhood desires, but also the things you really want to see yourself doing. The things you want to achieve.
You can also write a mantra list, a positive affirmation list of who you are, what you want to achieve, coupled with the vision board so you see it, you read it, you think it. And that is the way that we create the things in our future.
Remember that we are the architect of our own life. We have the plans, we have the blueprints to who we are. We can use those either in a positive way, a negative way, or in a way to just hold ourselves back. So it’s up to you to realize how do you want this new year to look, how do you want it to be, what do you want to get rid of, and what do you want to keep? In the new year I want you to continue to live your true life.
Dedicated to advocating a new perspective for people, and offering them the necessary tools to create an authentic, fabulous life - Ashley Berges, syndicated talk show host of Live Your True Life PERSPECTIVES, creator, and host of The Celebrity PERSPECTIVE (a new web series launching this fall), is also renowned life coach, in-demand keynote speaker, contemporary philosopher, acclaimed author and clinical psychologist.
With over 100k followers on social media and a show that airs six days a week, both nationally and internationally on multiple platforms & networks including iTunes, Spreaker, iHeart Radio, Radio Monterey, KLIF 570 News, and Identify Radio UK. Ashley, often called “The Man Whisperer,” champions her knowledge and experience to coach people on how to: expose dating, sex and relationship pitfalls, deftly navigate through divorce, face the challenges of the family afterward, cultivate influential leadership skills, and champion your true life. She has authored the celebrated book “Live Your True Life” and her latest “The 10 Day Challenge to Live Your True Life,” the guidebook for busy people who want to make valuable changes to their life.