The Internet giveth and the Internet taketh away. But when it came to showing love for dads in 2018 the Internet mostly, as the kids say, gave me life.
Too often in popular culture fathers are depicted as either missing in action or bumbling blokes who can’t seem to cook, do laundry, or care for their offspring when Mom is away. But the moments below—a mix of real-life and fictional dads—reflect fatherhood at its finest, from hilarious to heartwarming.
Some of these moments were viral sensations. Others emerged from movies and TV shows or simply from my online wanderings. So without further ado, [email protected] presents the seven Best #DadMoments of 2018.
7. “Daderina” Fights Stage Fright
Marc Daniels was dubbed by the internet as “Daderina” after he hopped on stage—with a baby in his arms—to rescue his tutu-wearing daughter, Bella, from a terrible case of stage fright. Daniels told USA Today he initially thought his little girl only needed a quick hug of reassurance but soon realized that if he didn’t stay by her side, she’d have to come off stage. He didn’t want that.
#Daderina fan @KC_Baby_Fair summed it up best: “Daddy dancing with her doesn’t make him super. Daddy knowing the choreography, executing the steps, and holding a baby makes him super!”
Video Credit: In Motion School of Dance via Storyful
6. T’Chaka Counsels His Son
As part of the ritual to become the Black Panther, T’Challa takes the heart-shaped herb that gives him his heroic powers and experiences a spiritual vision in which he meets his deceased father, T’Chaka. “I am not ready to be without you,” T-Challa says, to which his father replies, “A man who has not prepared his children for his own death has failed as a father. Have I ever failed you?” T’Chaka goes on to provide his son with nuggets of wisdom he will need to succeed as the new king of Wakanda.
As @kevin_oconnor16 put it on Twitter: “The first ancestral plane scene in Black Panther will always get me. Makes me want to hug my dad.” Hug it out, Kevin. Hug it out.
Video Credit: Marvel Studios & Walt Disney Studios Motion Pictures 2018
5. Jack Pearson Uplifts Randall
I know, I know. Technically this moment is from 2016, but I only became aware of it this year thanks to a Father’s Day piece by TV Guide that celebrated the full Dadness of Jack Pearson. In this scene, Jack and his adopted son, Randall, go through a father-son initiation at karate practice that is full of symbolism. Of course, it’s not all sunshine and rainbows from this point on for Randall (played by my fellow Stanford alum Sterling K. Brown. I see you, #ChocolateCardinal), but that’s what makes “This Is Us” such a powerful, tear-jerker of a show.
Video Credit: NBC Universal
4. Dad “Comfort Nurses” Baby
Christopher Brown goes by “Daddy Duke” on Twitter, but his newborn daughter apparently confused him with “Mommy Duke” when, in a sleepy haze, she latched onto his nipple.
He grabbed his cell phone to share the moment, which was equal parts awkward, hilarious, and tender.
baby girl was OBVIOUSLY confused 😭😭😭😂 pic.twitter.com/q3fL8V1bWR
— 🔥 Daddy Duke 🔥 (@SlimeBallDuke_) September 5, 2018
3. “The Rock” Melts With Paint
Kids have impeccably (im)perfect timing, especially when it’s time to leave the house or when you finally sit down and get deliciously comfortable only to have to get up because they need something. It’s like you’re Big Jerry from that popular Swiffer commercial who’s in desperate search of “deep couch sitting” but can’t find any because your adorable son is the spawn of the Energizer Bunny.
That’s why I love this Instagram moment from Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson. As parents, we may complain but rarely regret the childhood disruptions to our daily to-do list.
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Me: Baby come here and give daddy a kiss, he’s gotta go to work. Jazzy: But daddy I have to paint your toes. Me: Nope, daddy’s got his shoes on and gotta go to work, now come give me a kiss. Jazzy: Ok, then let me paint your face, daddy. Me: *confidently laughs* Absolutely not, now I gotta go to work, now get over here and kiss me. Jazzy: *while looking up at me with her mama @laurenhashianofficial’s intoxicating blue eyes… BUT DADDY, I need to paint your face for work. Me: Ok, but make sure you choose manly colors that are flattering to my complexion. As much as I tell her no, with my crazy busy life, this is the stuff I actually love ❤️ #ohana
2. Spider-Man’s Dad Won’t Chill
In an alternate universe, on Earth-1610 to be exact, teenager Miles Morales is Spider-Man. That’s all fine and well, but his father, Jefferson, knew him before the blow-up (as in, before he was bitten by a genetically enhanced spider). There’s an authenticity to this scene from “Spider-Man: Into the Spider-Verse” that rang true for me: people who love you help you stay grounded.
Video Credit: Sony Pictures Animation
1. Autism “Dadvocates” Inspire Me
If you search Facebook for the hashtag #AutismDad, a stream of posts will appear that make visible what is often invisible: fathers of autistic children.
Since learning to accept my daughter’s autism diagnosis in 2017, I’ve had the opportunity to work alongside bold and fearless Autism Moms who are advocating for greater acceptance and resources to support families raising children with special needs.
I don’t always see the dads, granddads, and other father figures, but when I do I’m heartened.
These “dadvocates,” to borrow a term from Mathew Oakes, are the ones who wear t-shirts that proclaim, “I love someone with autism,” who actively co-parent, who are defining new “normals,” who weather the good and bad days of life on the autistic seas, who channel love of family into meaningful advocacy. To these men, I say thank you for the example.
In July, I posted the photo below to Facebook with a note: “Sugar Smacks is the best bike buddy. Hittin’ the curves of the DuPage River Trail. #familyfun #daddydaughter #summer.” My aunt Linda quickly replied, “You should be voted Daddy of the Year! Love the picture!”
I’m certainly not Dad of the Year, but the photo at the top of this post is my personal #DadMoment of 2018. As one meme declared: “Autism Dad. Not all heroes wear capes.”
Originally published on https://fatherhoodatforty.net/the-7-best-dad-moments-of-2018/
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