Dating and relationships are often considered complicated and it’s true as well. In this modern era, where relationships come with an expiration date, it can be hard to ensure that what you have is special and everlasting. How to know what’s going in your partner’s mind while getting intimate? How to know whether sex is just sex or its love for him as well? These are the questions that cross the mind of every partner who has slept with their guy or is in a live in relationship. Does he like it or not?
So here we bring some traits of a guy who likes you in bed and is ready to take the intimacy a step further:
He does not feel emasculated: Being in an intimate relationship is not just about satisfying your man’s needs — it is a two-way process. If you have your fantasies and want to enjoy them there is nothing wrong with that. Taking initiative and having an strong side is not considered emasculation but just a healthy and unique way of expressing your desires.
He is responsive and communicative: Being on silent mood during sex is not just boring but also makes it mechanical. If your guys are responsive to your moaning and make an effort to arouse you it is a sign he is head over heels for you. Talking dirty during sex, telling what he wants from you and understands your needs is a sign that he is comfortable with you and likes you.
He loves reciprocate: We all know most men love getting pleasure — but how about if he likes to give pleasure? That’s a sign he is really into you and likes to satisfy you.
Chemistry is not just in the room: If he is affectionate with you in front of his family and friends, likes to take you to restaurants, shopping and basically is not embarrassed by accepting you publically then he is really considering about you for the long haul. Gifts are also a common way of expressing his emotions and he does it judiciously.
He loves to flaunt and pampers you: He never misses a chance to flaunt his relationship with you and loves to pamper you with gifts and accessories. It is normal for guys who are really happy in their relationship to include their partners in social gathering and want to spend time with them.
Open to new things: He will love to experiment and try new things in the bedroom. Rather than being judgemental, he will accept your way of expressing love and will be flexible.
If you are still confused about your man, it is better to have, “The Talk” rather than presuming things and getting all confused about what is going in the relationship.
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This post is republished on Medium.
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