Do you have someone in your life that seems to take up pretty much all of your mindshare? Do you constantly think of this person, wonder what they’re doing, then get worried and stressed out when you don’t hear from them? Do you find yourself impacted by their mood swings, and you have trouble even thinking or focus on your own needs?
This situation is all too common but very rarely discussed or brought out into the open. Whether you’re friends, related, dating, or married to this person, you’ve placed most if not all of your energy and focus into understanding, safeguarding, or trying to make things right with this person. This video will reveal if someone else has become your purpose instead of yourself. Reminder: our purpose is to fully understand ourselves, to understand and work on ourselves, to find self-awareness, self-understanding, finding one’s own value, and eventually embarking on unconditional self-love. None of these aspects can be achieved if we are focused solely on another person. In an upcoming video, I will explain ways of achieving emotional distance in order to slowly pull your focus and life back on track.
And if you do have someone with Borderline Personality Disorder in your life you can check out my latest master class, “A Guide for Living with Someone with BPD.” This series helps you to understand why you find yourself over-explaining, how you lost your power in the relationship, dealing with guilt in a healthy way, ammunition that is used and how to stop it, ending the cycle of false narratives, and the list goes on.
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