About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.

5 Ways Men Sabotage Their Own Love Lives

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You’ve probably never read these hard-hitting (but honest) challenges to the way you’re currently acting toward women.

The Sexy Allure of Uncertainty… and How You Can Harness It

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You need uncertainty to get excitement. Dr. NerdLove breaks it down.

5 Critical Online Dating Questions Answered

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Harris O’Malley on the etiquette of the online dating game.

Intervention Time: The Brutal Truth About How to Be Better With Women

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Dr. NerdLove says there isn’t one magic feather that’s going to help you build the life you want. Sorry.

How To Avoid Getting “The Fade” from Women

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Do the women you like disappear after a few dates?. Harris O’Malley on how to keep her interest.

Pacific Rim’s Lessons in Positive Masculinity

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Harris O’Malley shows us what it means to be a positive male role model.

Reclaiming Manhood: Detoxifying Toxic Masculinity

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Dr. NerdLove wonders if we can reclaim the term “being a man” to help us grow in our relationships and in our lives.

How To Be Funny

The UR example of the trope.

Harris O’Malley breaks down the science behind how to get the laughs.

When It’s Time for Men to Ask for Help

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We all face emotional problems that are too much to handle alone. But for men, asking for help is often a challenge. This guide helps you know if it’s time.

5 Dating Tips for Short Men

From the Hollywood Height Chart. See the full chart here.

Dr. NerdLove explains that height is only as much of a problem as you let it be.

How You Can Avoid Drama In Your Relationship

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Are you sabotaging your relationship with drama? Harris O’Malley shows  us how to avoid it in the future.

Take the Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

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The more you fear rejection, the harder dating is going to be. Dr. NerdLove explains.

5 Must-Follow Man Rules

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Being a man means learning how to handle your sh*t. But how can we do that when we’re never taught how to take care of ourselves?

Before You Meet the Woman of Your Dreams: 5 Things You Need To Do To Fix Your Life

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Self-improvement doesn’t work if you don’t have the proper foundation. Dr. NerdLove on how to be a better you, so you can get better at dating.

The (Positive) Value Of Anger in Finding Love

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Dr. Nerdlove on how to manage anger in a proper manner.

Despite What ’50 Shades’ Tells You, Kink is Not a License to Abuse

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Harris O’Malley offers a guide on how embrace your fantasies while still practicing consent and mutual respect.