About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.

Enforcing Your Boundaries

When it comes to work and your personal life, you need to learn when to say no.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

The way many geeks conduct themselves not only reinforces all the negative stereotypes about geeks but it also chases women away.

5 Signs Women Want You To Talk to Them

Harris O’Malley takes some of the mystery out of knowing when to approach and when to walk away.

Discover Your Personal Style

Harris O’Malley offers a 5 step approach to figuring out your look.

Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

Let’s be frank: rejection hurts. Literally. The pain of feeling rejected, outcast or unwanted is real. But it’s not the pain that makes rejection so difficult… it’s the fear.

How to Fix Your Dating Failures

Dating is hard. Dr. Nerd Love has some fool-proof strategies to fix your love life.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

Many geeks carry around their bitterness and resentment at being rejected like a badge of honor.

Nerd Role Models: Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity

Despite the fact that his body looks like it should be carved out of marble, Steve Rogers is actually evidence of the appeal of personality over looks.

5 Must-Follow Man Rules

You know the typical rules, but do you know how to take care of yourself?

5 Body Language Tricks That Increase Attraction

Knowing the vibe you’re giving off means you can control your communication and the conversation.

Anatomy Lesson: Party Foul

The disappointing tale of a night that didn’t go as planned.

Sexual Harassment and the Toxic Culture of Comics

Stop accepting sexual assault as just part of the “culture.”

What Men Should Have Learned in Sex Ed

Not pleasing your woman in bed? Well here’s what they didn’t teach you in school.

What To Do When You’ve Been Cheated On

Out of the many perils that couples face over the course of their relationships, the specter of being cheated on is one of the most common – and most anxiety-producing.

The Friend Zone Myth

Harris O’Malley on the cold, hard truth about the friend zone.

5 Simple Ways to Improve Your Social Skills Quickly

From eye contact to recording yourself talking to yourself, Harris O’Malley has some quick tips on how to improve your social presence.