Dr. NerdLove offers a primer on how to ace one of the most important moments in a new relationship.
Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)
Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.
Learning how to flirt and touch a woman in a way that is both consensual and sexy is a fine art. Dr. NerdLove gives guys a primer.
Dr. NerdLove explains that it’s not bad to be socially awkward, but it IS bad to refuse to respect people’s boundaries and use social awkwardness as an excuse.
Dr. NerdLove helps guys with the dreaded DTR talk, and explains it’s only dreaded because most guys haven’t learned how to do it correctly.
We all know that confidence is sexy, but you can’t just manufacture it… Or can you? Harris O’Malley breaks it down.
There are a lot of reasons why some women don’t approach men, but there may be things you can do to increase your odds of being the one getting the attention.
A lot of guys lament the fact that they have to be the ones to initiate with women… Dr. NerdLove examines whether that’s true, and why.
Dr. NerdLove rages against the notion that women are the idea that women are only worth the sex they aren’t giving away.
Harris O’Malley insists that it’s easier than you think to become one of those guys who can meet and comfortably chat up new people.
Dr. NerdLove admits that a lot of the biggest issues in dating are caught up in traditional gender roles, with man as aggressor and female as receiver.
Even if you’re not a mathematical genius, you can still hack your own OKCupid to help you find love faster and easier. Dr. NerdLove explains how.
Dr. NerdLove offers some unexpected tips and tools for bringing excitement back to your long-term love.
Harris O’Malley just saw “Her”, and thinks there’s a lot guys can learn about love and relationships from this film about a man who falls in love with his operating system.
Online dating is a great way to meet new people, but Dr. NerdLove sees a few problems with finding real love this way.
I’ve never really cared about my legacy, and then I read the obituary of a crazy racist.
Ned Breslin with a deeply personal story about the ways in which he’s learning to heal from past trauma.
Should some terms be off-limits? Tim Jones-Yelvington explains why it matters, as exemplified by the Ru-Paul’s Drag Race controversy.
In “A Wild Nobility” Chris “Bear” Brosnan is transforming tragedy into triumph. But he needs your help to finish the job.
Central & Centennial High School students dispel stereotypes of young black males by showing the world swag includes suits and ties.
Dave Lesser wonders if the stereotypical parenting memes he sees every day really represent how modern parents are viewing their partners
Charles Ellison has had enough of the “dissatisfaction poll”. He wants to see results of an “anger poll”.
Ever wondered what a sex therapist REALLY thinks is the best advice? Vanessa Martin shares her inside scoop on initiation, rejection, and innovation.
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Andrew Smiler highlights 14 aspects of sexuality that every parent should teach their sons.
“Without music, life would be a mistake.” ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
Jeff Perera explains his “Ladder of Masculinity” TEDx talk, and how toxic masculinity is linked to violence.
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