About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.

Avoid These 5 Dating Deal Breakers

Science tells us these are the most common deal breakers, Harris O’Malley tells us why and how to avoid them.

No More Magic Feathers: The Secret To Finding Real Self-Improvement

The key to true, lasting improvement comes from within.

How To Handle Your Inconvenient Emotions

Your emotions can work for you instead of against you, but you have to know what to do with them.

Are You Headed Towards A Breakup?

4 Signs your relationship is headed for Quitsville and how to pull it back from the brink.

Building A Closer Friendship With Other Men

Men tend to have fewer and fewer close friends as they age. That doesn’t have to be true for you.

How To Handle Dealbreakers

Every relationship is a matter of compromise.

Enforcing Your Boundaries

When it comes to work and your personal life, you need to learn when to say no.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

The way many geeks conduct themselves not only reinforces all the negative stereotypes about geeks but it also chases women away.

5 Signs Women Want You To Talk to Them

Harris O’Malley takes some of the mystery out of knowing when to approach and when to walk away.

Discover Your Personal Style

Harris O’Malley offers a 5 step approach to figuring out your look.

Take The Hit: Getting Over Your Fear of Rejection

Let’s be frank: rejection hurts. Literally. The pain of feeling rejected, outcast or unwanted is real. But it’s not the pain that makes rejection so difficult… it’s the fear.

How to Fix Your Dating Failures

Dating is hard. Dr. Nerd Love has some fool-proof strategies to fix your love life.

Geek Behaviors That Drive Women Away

Many geeks carry around their bitterness and resentment at being rejected like a badge of honor.

Nerd Role Models: Captain America and Non-Toxic Masculinity

Despite the fact that his body looks like it should be carved out of marble, Steve Rogers is actually evidence of the appeal of personality over looks.

5 Must-Follow Man Rules

You know the typical rules, but do you know how to take care of yourself?

5 Body Language Tricks That Increase Attraction

Knowing the vibe you’re giving off means you can control your communication and the conversation.