About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.

Dating Out of Your League

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Dr. NerdLove insists that there is no such thing as “out of your league.”

How to Survive Being Dumped

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There’s no getting around it, getting dumped sucks. But Harris O’Malley can tell you how to survive it and be stronger in the end.

Dating, Simplified

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Harris O’Malley breaks down the ever-complicated issue of dating into four simple steps.

Top 5 Mistakes Men Make in Dating

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Doctor NerdLove insists that before you can become good at dating, you have to start with the basics.

Leveling Up in Dating: Standing Out (The Right Way)

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Dr. NerdLove takes a look at how, with the right outfit, you can separate yourself from the herd.

Understanding Men

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Harris O’Malley insists that our understanding of masculinity today is a bubbling stew of misunderstandings, ignorance and anxieties.

The Virgin’s Guide to Great Sex

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Surprise! A virgin can actually be better prepared for great sex than many of his or her more precocious peers.

Selling Masculinity

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The vision of manhood perpetuated by the hyper-masculine ideology is one where men are little better than chimps, and Harris O’Malley wants to know why more men aren’t insulted by it.

5 Surprising Behaviors That Ruin Relationships

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Doctor NerdLove explains how even when we think we’re doing everything right, bad habits can sneak in and ruin a perfectly good romance.

The Power of Letting Go, Giving Up and Moving On

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Dr. NerdLove insists that sometimes giving up and moving on is the most powerful choice you can make.

Leveling Up: The Most Attractive Aspect of a Man

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Dr. NerdLove discusses the number one quality women find attractive in a man, and offers tips for how to increase that factor in your life.

What is the ‘It Factor’ and Can You Create It?

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Doctor NerdLove examines the alluring “it factor” some people have, and offers ways we can enhance our own charisma.

Where Have All The Good Men Gone?

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Harris O’Malley challenges the notion that there is an epidemic of man-children in society today.

How to Get a Second Date (By Acing the First)

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Doctor NerdLove offers a play-by-play guide for showing off your best self on a first date.

OKCupid and Race Fetishism

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Doctor NerdLove asserts we all have types that turn our cranks more than others. The problem is when it goes from simple physical attraction to fetishization.

How to Survive a Dating Emergency

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What could go wrong on a first date? Just about everything. Don’t worry, Dr. Nerdlove’s got you covered.