About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.

Anatomy Lesson: Party Foul

The disappointing tale of a night that didn’t go as planned.

Sexual Harassment and the Toxic Culture of Comics

Stop accepting sexual assault as just part of the “culture.”

What Men Should Have Learned in Sex Ed

Not pleasing your woman in bed? Well here’s what they didn’t teach you in school.

What To Do When You’ve Been Cheated On

Out of the many perils that couples face over the course of their relationships, the specter of being cheated on is one of the most common – and most anxiety-producing.

The Friend Zone Myth

Harris O’Malley on the cold, hard truth about the friend zone.

5 Simple Ways to Improve Your Social Skills Quickly

From eye contact to recording yourself talking to yourself, Harris O’Malley has some quick tips on how to improve your social presence.

How to Stay Friends After the Break Up

Just because you didn’t work out as lovers, it doesn’t mean that you can’t be friends – even good friends. But being friends after a break-up is tricky and takes work… sometimes more work than the relationship did.

What to do When You’ve Been Cheated on

It’s understandable then that we almost automatically assume that an infidelity is a relationship extinction event; that betrayal of both the intimacy and identity is the crime that can never be forgiven. But should it be?

The Value of Authenticity

Acknowledging your weaknesses and becoming comfortable with them is authenticity. Defining yourself by them and refusing to try to address them, on the other hand, is not.

A Gentleman’s Guide to Not Being a Complete and Utter Jerk

Harris O’Malley breaks it down on how to be one of the good guys.

How to Approach Women (Without Being Creepy)

Respecting somebody’s boundaries, on the other hand, is a mark of respect as well as social calibration. The guy who shows respect is someone who’s going to have far greater success with women.

Why it’s so Hard to Break Up With Someone (Even When You Need to)

Breaking up is hard to do. Even when all the signs are telling you that this person isn’t right, why do we want to stay? Dr. Nerd Love breaks it down.

How to Pick Up Women in Your Social Circle

Harris O’Malley on playing it cool and taking it slow when meeting new women in your social scene.

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

Harris O’Malley on refining your positivity and developing a better attitude.

New From NerdLove Publications: When it Clicks – The Guide to Mastering Online Dating!

Harris O’Malley has a new read for the nerds trying their hands at online dating.

No More Magic Feathers: The Secret to Finding Real Self-Improvement

Harris O’Malley on looking within and disregarding the things we cannot change in order to become a better us.