About Harris O'Malley

Harris O'Malley provides geek dating advice at his blog Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as writing the occasional guest review for Spill.com and appearing on the podcast The League of Extremely Ordinary Gentlemen. He can be found dispensing snark and advice on Facebook and Twitter (@DrNerdLove.)

Dr. NerdLove is not really a doctor.

Why it’s so Hard to Break Up With Someone (Even When You Need to)

Breaking up is hard to do. Even when all the signs are telling you that this person isn’t right, why do we want to stay? Dr. Nerd Love breaks it down.

How to Pick Up Women in Your Social Circle

Harris O’Malley on playing it cool and taking it slow when meeting new women in your social scene.

Your Attitude Controls Your Dating Success

Harris O’Malley on refining your positivity and developing a better attitude.

New From NerdLove Publications: When it Clicks – The Guide to Mastering Online Dating!

Harris O’Malley has a new read for the nerds trying their hands at online dating.

No More Magic Feathers: The Secret to Finding Real Self-Improvement

Harris O’Malley on looking within and disregarding the things we cannot change in order to become a better us.

How To Not Be Creepy

Harris O’Malley on how to take responsibility, stay calm, and approach women properly.

5 Things Men Do That Make Them Less Attractive

Being attractive is more complicated than straight teeth and nice pecs. Harris O’Malley shows us how.

Why Is It So Hard To Be A Good Man?

What makes a good man? And how can we make that a consistent goal for men to achieve?

How Do You Find Your Masculinity?

Harris O’Malley on how we define and understand what it means to be a man.

Do Androids Dream of Informed Consent?

Can a relationship between a robot and a human ever be one of equals? What if the robot looks and seems human, like the Synths from AMC’s new series, “Humans”premiering on Sunday, June 28th at 9/8c?

Better Communication Can Save Your Relationship

Stop assuming you have all the answers and pay attention to non verbal cues. These are just a few of the ways to have better communication in relationships. Harris O’Malley shows us more.

How to Share Your Unpopular Opinion (Without Being a Jerk)

Harris O’Malley reminds us that having a conflicting opinion isn’t a problem, but being an a**hole is.

The Truth About Casual Sex (And How To Get It)

There are a lot of factors other than wanting to sleep with someone that determine the likeliness of casual sex. Dr. Nerd Love lays it down for us.

5 Ways Men Sabotage Their Own Love Lives

You’ve probably never read these hard-hitting (but honest) challenges to the way you’re currently acting toward women.

The Sexy Allure of Uncertainty… and How You Can Harness It

You need uncertainty to get excitement. Dr. NerdLove breaks it down.

5 Critical Online Dating Questions Answered

Harris O’Malley on the etiquette of the online dating game.