Happily-married man Doug Zeigler lists his favorite tips for bringing heat back into your relationship.
We all want to keep things as spicy in the bedroom, but every day life can get in the way of keeping the home fires burning. Bills, kids, your job, commuting, being a chauffeur for all your children’s activities, the million projects to do around the house… the list just never seems to end.There is light at the end of the tunnel, though. If you do these ten easy and quick things each day, you can help set the stage for the kind of sex you had when you first met. Unbridled, unexpected and fun!
1) Hold hands as much as possible, even when you’re just sitting on the couch. Touching creates intimacy and can lead to touching in other fun areas.
2) Send each other sexy texts at random times. Bonus points if you do it during a work meeting and make them blush!
3) Tell your partner at least one thing daily that you find irresistible about him or her.
4) Kiss publicly. Few things are sexier than the confidence to show the world you love them.
5) Tell them you love them. OFTEN. And mean it.
6) Don’t wait for a chance to have sex; MAKE TIME.
7) Quickies are important; just don’t make them your only diet sexually.
8) Explain your fantasies, and listen to theirs… then act them out.
9) Get naked in the places where where you ordinarily wouldn’t – kitchen countertop? Go for it. In the shower? Absolutely!
10) Kiss your partner deeply, like you mean it, like you did when things were new and the possibilities are endless.
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#1 is a good one. Touching is important. And non-sexual touching is sometimes especially important. It’s nice when my boyfriend touches me in ways that aren’t meant to always lead to sex. The rest of the list is okay. Although, I do have a bit of a problem telling other people that they should act out fantasies. Both partners should feel comfortable sharing fantasies and possibly do them but partners should also feel comfortable saying “I don’t feel comfortable doing that”, without guilting from their partners. Same applies to having sex in different places. If you want to, sure do… Read more »
You don’t get naked in the shower? You’re seriously weird man. Seriously.
Sounds good. So long as the quickie sex isn’t too quick.
Nick, you’re right…I have been taking showers wrong all these years!
“Get naked in the places where where you ordinarily wouldn’t – kitchen countertop? Go for it. In the shower? Absolutely!”
Showers – you’re doing them wrong.
Also, what happened to disclosing sponsored posts up the top of the post?
HI Nick!
We put the logo of the sponsoring company at the very top so that you would know what was up.
Thanks for asking.