The relationship you want is on the other side of your fear.
Blame Is the Game Where Everybody Loses
And why we need more acceptance and accountability.
And why we need more acceptance and accountability.
My Single Life: It’s a Little Lonely, But At Least My Self-Worth Is Intact
Solitude is preferable to settling for an illusion of love.
Solitude is preferable to settling for an illusion of love.
Three Popular Insults I Take as Sincere Compliments
You didn’t mean it to be sweet, but that’s how I’m taking it.
You didn’t mean it to be sweet, but that’s how I’m taking it
Got Chemistry? You’ll Need Alignment, Too
You’ll need both for a happy, healthy, successful relationship
You’ll need both for a happy, healthy, successful relationship
When We Call Them Out, They Call Us Ugly
This shift is intentional.
This shift is intentional.
3 Things to Celebrate on Independence Day If You’re Mad at America
Don’t stop fighting for the America you want to see in the world.
Don’t stop fighting for the America you want to see in the world.
Dating Cynic or Dating Realist: How to Self-Identify
Are you brave enough to be honest with yourself?
Are you brave enough to be honest with yourself?
Breaking Down the Infamous INFJ Door Slam
The door doesn’t just close — it slams in your face.
The door doesn’t just close — it slams in your face.
A Lack of Transparency Is the Ultimate Bait & Switch in Dating
If you aren’t being authentic, you’re being manipulative.
If you aren’t being authentic, you’re being manipulative.
I’m Changing My Relationship With Expectation and Disappointment
Because hope shouldn’t be just another 4-letter word.
Because hope shouldn’t be just another 4-letter word.
To the Once-Delusional, Now-Disappointed Lovers
Your love was not for nothing.
Your love was not for nothing.
To All the Former “Pick-Me” Girls: I’m Proud of You
It takes a lot of courage to start to choose ourselves.
It takes a lot of courage to start to choose ourselves.
A Message to the Bare Minimum Man
No one is saying you can’t be yourself. You’re missing the point.
No one is saying you can’t be yourself. You’re missing the point.
6 Lies We Tell Ourselves in Relationships
It’s tempting to live inside that fantasy forever.
It’s tempting to live inside that fantasy forever.
The Reason We Keep Telling the Same Stories of Love and Loss
This isn’t ruinous rumination but mesmerizing and meaningful.
This isn’t ruinous rumination but mesmerizing and meaningful.