It’s just cheating.
What Your Relationships and Tornados Have in Common
When your dating history is one messy disaster after another.
When your dating history is one messy disaster after another.
You Don’t Have to Be a Predator to Be an Unsafe Man for Women
An uncomfortable but important perspective
An uncomfortable but important perspective
Screw Love Languages: Clear, Direct Communication is Enough
We don’t actually need to know their love language to love well.
We don’t actually need to know their love language to love well.
Falling in Love With the Idea of Him Helped Me Discover What I Want
He wasn’t my forever, but I’m grateful.
He wasn’t my forever, but I’m grateful.
I’m Too Busy: The Shield for Those Who Want Love but Don’t Know What to Do With It
Is your “too busy” a trauma response?
Is your “too busy” a trauma response?
The Relationship Between Reacting, Overreacting, and Gaslighting
And how to know the difference.
And how to know the difference.
Relationships Should Expand Your Life — Not Limit It
Let’s talk about manspreading in relationships.
Let’s talk about manspreading in relationships.
If You Have No More Love to Give, Why Are You Taking Anyone Else’s?
A necessary reminder — and cautionary tale.
A necessary reminder — and cautionary tale.
I’m Back With My Ex: Why This Time Will Be Different
When it’s finally the right person AND the right time.
When it’s finally the right person AND the right time.
You Can’t Fix Him With Your Love and Good Intentions
And why you’ve got to stop trying to.
And why you’ve got to stop trying to.
Anyone Can Be Good at Relationships in Theory
It takes practice to develop and maintain healthy partnerships.
It takes practice to develop and maintain healthy partnerships.
Conflict Avoidance Blocks Intimacy
The relationship you want is on the other side of your fear.
The relationship you want is on the other side of your fear.
Blame Is the Game Where Everybody Loses
And why we need more acceptance and accountability.
And why we need more acceptance and accountability.
My Single Life: It’s a Little Lonely, But At Least My Self-Worth Is Intact
Solitude is preferable to settling for an illusion of love.
Solitude is preferable to settling for an illusion of love.
Three Popular Insults I Take as Sincere Compliments
You didn’t mean it to be sweet, but that’s how I’m taking it.
You didn’t mean it to be sweet, but that’s how I’m taking it















