How 4 ½ years in an anxious-avoidant relationship taught me that you can’t earn emotional security by loving someone “harder”.
Curious Gal
About Curious Gal
Rachel Andersen writes about love, relationships, and the things we learn about ourselves when they don't work out the way we hoped. After spending four and a half years in a relationship that was equal parts wonderful and heartbreaking, she started putting her experiences into words. She's not a relationship expert, just someone who's made plenty of mistakes, ignored more red flags than she'd like to admit, and learned some hard lessons along the way. She hopes sharing her story might help someone else avoid a little of the heartache.
