After years of doing the exact opposite, a few months of celibacy changed Hugo Schwyzer’s life.
Do Boys Need Affirmative Action? How Colleges Punish Girls For Success
Hugo Schwyzer reflects on a NYT story on college admissions policies and the implications for both genders.
Poor, Poor, Pitiful Men: The Martyr Complex of the American Husband
Guy Code, Hugo Schwyzer writes, attempts to give men a free pass from being emotionally understanding in their relationships.
Hardwired to Nurture: What the New Testosterone Study Really Says About Men
Actually, this is news that a lot of fathers want to hear.
Loving Your Daughter Doesn’t Make You a Pedophile
Hugo Schwyzer wants fathers to stand up and show their daughters that they’re not afraid of our unhealthy culture of suspicion.
Learning to be a Husband, Not a Son
It took Hugo Schwyzer three marriages to realize that there needs to be an equal partnership in setting limits.
There is No American Upper Class
Hugo Schwyzer does not want me to use ‘upper-class’ here.
Our Kind of People, Class, and Pride
You should always be proud of your family—even if they are preppy, upper-class, country club members.
The Opposite of “Man” is “Boy,” Not “Woman”
Masculinity is a performance, Hugo Schwyzer writes, in which men differentiate themselves from boys.
The Real Meaning of MILFs
Madison Young reminds us that men are turned on by the same women who give birth and breastfeed.
Unhappy, Defeated Boys Can Become Happy, Powerful Men
Hugo Schwyzer uses memories of his awkward, unhappy, throughly alienated years in middle school as powerful tools for defeating addiction and self-loathing.
Love, Hate, Rage, and Therapy
Hugo Schwyzer on love, hate, indifference, and forgiveness.
Learning to Row From Both Sides of the Boat
Hugo Schwyzer talks with Warren Farrell about the White House Commission on Boys to Men.
Buying ‘Sugar Daughters’: What’s Really Wrong With the Sugar-Daddy Phenomenon
Some college students are paying off their debts with sex.
May I Walk You to Your Car? Chivalry and its Contradictions
Even though biology might not be destiny, Hugo Schwyzer writes, there’s nothing wrong with a man being chivalrous.
A Dating Paradigm Shift For Women in Their 30s
Are women in their 30s looking to slightly younger guys, in lieu of older men, for relationships?