The Good Men Project

Get Daily Email

We are the only international conversation about the changing roles of men in the 21st century.

Register Your Email

Become a Premium Member

We have pioneered the largest worldwide conversation about what it means to be a good man in the 21st century.

Your support of our work is inspiring and invaluable.

Register New Account

Login

Janet Chui

About Janet Chui

Janet is the artist and creator behind the Self-Love Oracle. Drawing fantastical subjects since childhood and holding a B.A. in Journalism, she's worked in tourism and publishing, and is currently studying Counseling Psychology. After her experiences with motherhood, divorce, Tibetan Buddhism, healing, and the supernatural, she pushes others to heal through self-exploration and self-expression.

Follow me on Medium:
medium.com/@selfloveoracle

The Overlooked Strength that Builds Better Relationships

We’re all born with it, but it’s not always valued or nurtured.

September 9, 2025 by Janet Chui Leave a Comment

We’re all born with it, but it’s not always valued or nurtured.

How Trauma and Toxic Machismo Killed Love and Belonging

Some human needs are universal, but trauma and culture wars may have convinced survivors otherwise.

August 22, 2023 by Janet Chui Leave a Comment

Some human needs are universal, but trauma and culture wars may have convinced survivors otherwise.

8 Toxic Attitudes to Ditch Before Dating

Some unconscious behaviors are radioactive. Check these before you wreck your best chances for love.

August 19, 2023 by Janet Chui Leave a Comment

Some unconscious behaviors are radioactive. Check these before you wreck your best chances for love.

Relationship Advice From Miserable People

I wish someone had taught me earlier to ignore them.

November 29, 2022 by Janet Chui Leave a Comment

I wish someone had taught me earlier to ignore them.