We often feel happy and want to stay in relationships that also contain aspects we don’t want and that are painful.
Freeing Yourself From Your Partner’s Behavior
When we fight with reality, reality wins, every time.
When we fight with reality, reality wins, every time.
How To Protect Yourself From Passive Aggression
The passive-aggressive character will play the part of the victim.
The passive-aggressive character will play the part of the victim.
How Long Should You Wait for Your Partner to Commit?
... and how to stop judging and blaming yourself for needing what you desire.
… and how to stop judging and blaming yourself for needing what you desire.
When Your Relationship Is Not What You Think It ‘Should’ Be
Our stories about what a relationship "should" be keep us suffering.
Our stories about what a relationship “should” be keep us suffering.
Just Because It’s Family Doesn’t Mean It Isn’t Toxic
We have the right to say “no” to what feels abusive, what hurts—even when that abuse, that hurt, comes from family.
We have the right to say “no” to what feels abusive, what hurts—even when that abuse, that hurt, comes from family.
Why Our Expectations of Marriage Must Change
A lasting marriage means learning to live in the truth of broken promises.
A lasting marriage means learning to live in the truth of broken promises.
What We Want Most From Relationship (But Rarely Get)
Why listening changes everything.
Why listening changes everything.