No matter how uncomfortable break ups are, it’s a terrible idea to break up by text. Here’s why… — “I was recently broken up with via text! My heart is far from shattered, but I am livid. I should have known better! How can someone go from “I miss you, can’t wait to see you” to…
The Top 7 Insecurities Men Don’t Want Women to Know
Many men suffer silently with insecurities. Here are the top seven, according to research. — In the book, Seven Deep Insecurities Men Don’t Want Women to Know, author Sheri Ragland shares the story of her husband Robert’s life and struggles with his insecurities. To learn more about the top insecurities that men struggle with, she sent a comprehensive survey…
A Dating Story: How to Know if You Should Stay Or Go
Read this dating story as it unfolds and decide if she should stay or go… — ‘Laurie’ was dating ‘Josh’ and wanted some coaching on whether she should continue to see him. He had many of the qualities on her must-have list; he was kind, financially responsible, fun, and open-minded. She was attracted to him, but there were also…
How to Help Children of Divorce Have Amazing Romantic Relationships
Does divorce always cause irreparable damage to children? Or can they go on to have healthy romantic relati
How to Overcome Fears About Dating After a Breakup or Divorce
4 ways to overcome your fears about dating again after a divorce or the end of a relationship. — What are your fears about dating again after divorce or a breakup? Maybe you were married or in a long-term relationship with someone who was emotionally or verbally abusive and you don’t want to ever experience that again?…
The Shocking Reason Why I Shut Down My Tinder Account
When this happened, I shut down my Tinder account forever. — I recently shut down my Tinder account. Before I tell you what happened that led to that decision, it’s important to know why I even signed up for Tinder in the first place. ◊♦◊ Here’s how it all began… Two years after my divorce, I realized…
Women Reveal What They REALLY Think About Single Men Over 40
Want to know what women REALLY think about single men over 40? — I recently polled a group of single women over 40 about what they really think about single men. I figured the majority of the comments would be negative; bitter, and hopeless. But there were also lovely comments about single men, and that made…
5 Valuable Tips for Writing Outstanding Online Dating Emails
Most online dating emails are ignored or never opened. These 5 tips will help your emails stand out from the crowd. — You’re on Match.com or OkCupid, and you send out a few online dating emails to people you like. You wait patiently for a response and…nothing. Crickets. It’s so disappointing when emails go unanswered. It can make you want…
6 Excellent Reasons Why You Should Forgive A Good Man
Ladies, are you confused about when to forgive a man and when to leave? Forgive a good man when he does these 6 things… — Should I stay or should I go? If you’ve ever asked yourself that question, you’re not alone. It’s difficult to know which behaviors to forgive and which are true red…
How to Deal With Mind Games in Dating
Have you ever felt that someone you were dating was playing mind games? Here’s how to deal with the crazy… — Dating can be fun, but it can also be crazy making, especially if you’re dating someone who’s playing with your head. I received this email from a woman who wanted to know, how do you deal…
How to Actually Stop Fighting About Money
We fight about money. We break up over money. We divorce over money. But are we really fighting about money? Sandy Weiner doesn’t think so… — I believe that money issues are not really about money. They are about the emotions and values we place on money. We fight about the feelings we attach to money, what money means to…
Why It’s Important to Get Naked on a First Date
Here’s how to ‘get naked’ on a first date. Spoiler alert: it’s not what you think… — Raise your hand if you want to get naked on a first date. Okay, hands down, you sex-crazed people. Now, raise your hand if you love first date conversations. That’s what I thought. Yes, they can be awkward, dreadful, boring. When you’re…
First Date Mistakes That Could Have Been Avoided
Ever make first date mistakes? We all do. Here’s how to do better next time. — You’ve got first date jitters. You’re waiting at the coffee shop, a little nervous. What if she doesn’t show up? What if he looks nothing like his profile photos? What if I spill my drink? What if I’m so…
5 Tips for Navigating Successfully From First Call to First Date
I made all the first phone call and first date mistakes so you don’t have to, especially in the beginning stages of dating. — Two years after my divorce, I signed up for my first online dating site. After a twenty-three year marriage, I was craving a first date with a man who ‘got me’. If…
Online Dating Adventures: The Classless Jerk I Met on Tinder
Online dating sites are an excellent way to meet your match. But, you’ll have to weed through some jerks. Like this one… — I have a love/hate relationship with Tinder. I love the ease of swiping right if I like a guy, or left if I want to pass. It takes much less time than traditional online dating, where…
Online Dating Profiles: How You Can Stand Out From The Crowd
If you’re single and over 40, it’s almost impossible to find love. That is, if you’re not on an online dating site AND you’re not posting a profile that stands out. — I know, I know, you probably hate online dating. But, if you’re not dating online, are you dating at all? Are you getting set…