Despite his optimism, John gets blindsided by Jane’s request to separate. Now he is confused more than ever about what to do next. What would you do?
See Jane Threaten Divorce Again. What Should John do This Time?
When Jane repeats a familiar threat, John says something that even surprised him.
How to Stop Trying to Make Her Happy and Still Get What you Want
If you’re focusing on her, you’re looking in the wrong direction.
The Man You Need to Be to Have the Relationship You Want
Steve Horsmon knows it can be done and shows you how.
Steve Horsmon knows it can be done and shows you how.
Dear Spouse: I Can’t Get Close Until You Back Off
She chases. He retreats. This pattern destroys marriages. Steve Horsman intervenes.
How the Pain of a Pending Divorce Might Save Your Life
“You feel helpless and desperate. You feel like you’re not “good enough”. You want the magic words that will undo everything that’s been done and said and make it all whole again. And nobody can give them to you.”
The Sex or the Love: Which Did you Lose First?
Steve Horsman doesn’t think this is about sex or love. It’s about the moment you stopped speaking your truth.
Being Prince Charming
Steve Horsmon knows men can’t always be fairy tale heroes from a Disney movie, but thinks expecting the best from ourselves will lead to more fulfilling marriages.
How NUTS can improve your marriage
Steve Horsmon’s experience with his clients has taught him that you have to know your own values to make things work with your partner.
The Biggest Turn Off She Will Never Tell You
Your desperation and low standards for sex is one of the biggest turn offs for her.
What a Horse Can Teach you About Your Wife: Lessons from a Horse Whisperer
If you can communicate with a horse, you can communicate with your wife. Learn how.
Deciding What To Do With Your Marriage?
Why Do We Believe the Solution to an Unhappy Marriageis to Fix or Replace our Spouse?
Does a Man Cry When His Mother Dies?
Steve Horsmon found himself curiously without tears at some of the most poignant moments of his life. Why?
Save Your Marriage By Saying Nothing
Steve Horsmon’s simple solution for saving a marriage: sometimes you have to shut up.
She Wants To Plan When He Wants To Relax
Learning to value and respect the needs of your partner.
Building More Intimacy: Handling Conflict Like a Man
Steve Horsmon explains how to be a prize-winning communicator in a relationship.