Being in love can be one of the most beautiful and the most stressful feeling ever. Being in love means seeing no boundaries or limits. If it’s mutual, it can be nurturing and even healing; but if it’s not, then it can get pretty painful.
So here are some tips for people who are head over heels in love with their partners:
Do not compromise your dreams for anyone
Yes, boys and girls. Do not! It doesn’t mean you should never adapt or give in or compromise on anything, but keep a good balance between your personal, professional and love life. Make it clear to your partner than you can’t alter your dreams and aspirations for their sake.
Do not be the rule-maker
Like seriously! People already have a lot of others imposing their do’s and don’ts on them. Give them a break. Let them enjoy their lives and ultimately, make every second count when you are together.
Expression of love is one of the nicest things couples could do for and with each other. But please keep it to yourselves! There is no need to show it off publicly. Seriously, boys and girls…give it a break. No one wants to see you sticking your tongue down your partner’s throats or those extra cheezy quotes explaining what your future children will look like!
If you really want to express your love, spend quality time with your partner and respect him or her as an individual. Go out, eat, travel together, talk deep, go crazy, cuddle maybe. Just have fun together without showing it to the world constantly.
Okay, so I’m not talking about Interstellar or Star Wars here. Giving some space to your partner is one of the most important things to do in love. Spending time apart from each other is as important as spending time together. We all need some alone time and social life beyond our relationships, don’t we!
This is the most important and vital part of a relationship. If there is no trust or basic understanding, what meaning does a relationship hold? Trust and be trustworthy. Be a friend to your partner, support him or her, and enjoy every moment of your relationship feeling peaceful and satisfied.
Love can be one of the most fulfilling feelings. Do not make it a shipwreck; sail through with your partner, forever in love, forever cherishing every moment! Who knows what tomorrow might bring.