WARNING: The following content contains raw, graphic details about bodily functions and sex. Get out of here if you don’t want to read that kind of stuff!
As a men’s dating coach, I’m always on the hunt for the very best information about women for my audience. Once again, I have explored the depths of the internet to bring you hidden treasures! Here are 29 “secrets” about women written by women, some of which even surprised me:
1. The ladies room is a vibe
We’re starting off this list with an easy one that many of you have probably heard about. A room full of drunk women with nothing but positive vibes sounds like an awesome time, to be honest.
2. Boob-related secret 1
I guess women have their own version of “BSTL.”
3. Boob-related secret 2
These kinds of fun facts need to come in pairs. For thematic consistency.
4. When NOT to approach
Don’t use this as an excuse to justify lack of action. This isn’t meant as a warning against approaching women in general. Just make sure you’re doing it without the safety blanket of other male friends in the peanut gallery. And rather than trying to get with women in order to look cool to your buddies, do it because you actually desire her.
The real ones know how to approach without approaching, though:
5. Don’t forget the “come here” motion
It should be noted that one woman replied to this comment with “But there are always exceptions to the rules…finger me like a god damn jackhammer.”
6. Spooning can lead to forking
It’s like having on a squishy little backpack!
7. Help me I’m stuck
OK, maybe this one is closer to their version of BSTL, but worse.
8. Never forget this one!
I thought this one was common knowledge, so I was a little surprised to see this one in a Reddit thread about “girl secrets.” Anyway, if your partner doesn’t hop on over to the bathroom after sex, let her know this.
9. 🫂
Sometimes you need to get out of your head and get into your body.
10. Good news for less well-endowed men
And make sure you’re not judging yourself by unrealistic porn standards. That’s a recipe for psychological disaster. Your physical performance, on the other hand, can definitely reach great heights like the pros:
11. Your crush also farts
Apparently some men have reported that they experience this, too, but I don’t know what they’re talking about?!
12. Say “Cheese!”
I apologize for the title of this one. Anyway, wash your junk, folks! And get tested if you’re stinking more than usual down there.
Don’t forget that women have a better sense of smell than you do:
13. She knows more than me
Women are used to making themselves smaller in order to make men feel bigger. Is this an injustice, or do they feel like they get something out of that? Different people will have different opinions on that.
14. Objectification and resentment
I previously wrote an article about how a lot more women are into anime these days:
That doesn’t mean that some women still won’t feel upset about how the entertainment medium objectifies them so much. You’d probably feel resentful, too, if such a globally popular medium did the same to you.
15. The magic of childbirth…
Labour? Hella? UK people are using California slang? Interesting. I have no comment about the other stuff except that it reminds me of that South Park episode with Bono.
16. Faking orgasms
It’s a tragic reality that many women have difficulty getting to orgasm no matter what they do. I recommend approaching the issue with plenty of patience and compassion if this is the case for your partner, and remember that it’s more about her than it is about you.
17. When she’s almost there
This is easy to forget when you’re in the heat of the moment. She tells you this, you get more excited, and maybe you go faster. Just try to keep this in mind!
18. A personal touch goes a long way
I definitely know about this one:
19. Have you earned your red wings?
I admit that, when I was young and stupid, I used to freak out about period blood because I was just queasy about blood in general. It’s not a big deal! Just put a towel underneath!
20. They’re very aware of our desire to protect
That sounds like such a tragic circumstance. It speaks to the dynamic between women and the roles perceived by their men in their lives.
21. So, this is what they mean when they say “self care”
Think about this for a moment and it becomes quite obvious. You can probably finish faster with your own hand than with what most women can do, too. You have more experience with your own body than anyone else.
22. Tampon troubles
I admit I have never even once considered this, and it sure sounds uncomfortable as hell!
23. Hydration is important
Well, I guess sometimes it’s still not wet enough to prevent the situation from the previous item in this list 100% of the time.
24. Silence of the mans
It might end up being a bit weird if you’re louder than her, though.
25. I’m suddenly craving Gushers
Yeah, I prefer the inconvenience of random boners over this.
26. Leave something to the imagination
The majority of people who read romance novels are women. The majority of people who watch explicit pornography are men. The seduction principle of building anticipation also works on men, but it’s even more important when trying to date and seduce women.
27. Different strokes for different folks
Never have I ever tried to finger the back of someone’s knees. Well, I know what I’ll be trying this weekend.
28. Ever read “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday?
The rich world of sexual fantasies in a woman’s mind is more incredible than you can ever imagine. If you could have just a peak into their innermost secret thoughts, you’ll never think of men being the more perverted gender ever again. Keep that in mind next time you’re flirting with a woman:
29. Are you “that guy?”
If your hygiene is bad and you smell bad, it’s hard to notice your own stench. If your personality makes other people feel unpleasant in some way, it might be hard for you to have enough self-awareness to recognize it.
How can you tell if you make women feel uncomfortable?
How can you tell if you’re one of those “incredibly irritating” men?
Or, worse, how can you tell if you’re making women feel creeped out?
Developing that kind of self-awareness takes knowledge, and that’s exactly the kind of material covered in Never Lonely: The Uncensored Guide on How to Attract and Be Loved by Women. In it, you can learn the 7 reasons women call men “creepy,” and how you can make sure no woman ever thinks of you that way ever again.
It’s important for us to understand women if we want to live a life full of love. May your journey in understanding and growth never end.
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This post was previously published on Write A Catalyst.
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