Sex is a subject that’s still taboo to discuss, especially when it comes to sexual dysfunction. The idea of not having good sex sounds embarrassing and many couples may keep it a secret.
That’s a problem. Having sexual issues can lead to relationship issues as well as quality of life problems as well. If you have it, then it’s important for you to seek help as soon as possible.
There are many different types of sexual dysfunctions, and this post will explain more about them.
Sexual Dysfunction
This is when you are having an issue during sex that stops you from enjoying it. Sexual arousal, stimulation, and orgasm are all parts of the cycle, and a disorder throws a wrench into the sexual process.
Sexual dysfunctions can happen, and not just with older crowds. Any age can have them, and it is important to address them. In order to do so, we need to look at the main categories.
The Categories
Sexual dysfunction can describe a broad category of sexual issues. Let’s discuss them all briefly.
Arousal Issues
This is when a person is unable to become aroused or have any sexual excitement. One of the more common instances of this is Erectile dysfunction or ED.
Desire Issues
This is when a person doesn’t have any interest in sex or any desire. We are not talking about “not being in the mood” on occasion or even someone who is naturally asexual. This describes someone who loses their sexual desire over a period of time.
Orgasm Issues
This is when someone is unable to achieve orgasm, or it’s delayed by quite a bit. The climax is important for the resolution of sex, so make sure that it’s working well on both sides.
Pain Issues
This is when one has pain while having sex. This can make the process difficult, making many unable to finish.
Sexual Issues By Biological Sex
Men and women can experience different symptoms. Let’s look at them.
Males
As you probably know, ED is a large sexual issue that many men face. While some will treat it as a joke, it’s not.
It can be a side of physical and mental issues.
Men may also experience an ejaculation that is delayed or not there at all. Some men may have premature ejaculation as well. This is something that is joked about, but it can be a sign of a serious issue and there is no shame in admitting it if you have it.
Females
Women are similar in that there are delays or inabilities to achieve ejaculation. Women may have little vaginal lubrication or be unable to relax their vaginal muscles to make sexual intercourse as well.
Both
Both sexes can have several sexual desire symptoms. A man and a woman may lose interest, feel unaroused, or have pain. This can lead to many different issues in a relationship, as sex is quite important all things considered.
The Reasons for it
A loss in sex is stereotyped as getting older, but there are plenty of older adults who have a functional sex life.
However, there are many issues that can happen due to age. Heart issues, diabetes, neurological issues, liver failure are a few examples.
Having an addiction such as alcoholism can cause sexual issues as well.
Some medications may be the reason why one is no longer experiencing sexual desire. Antidepressants, anti-hypertensive medications, diuretics, and other meds may lead to ED and other sexual desire problems. Talk to your doctor if you suspect you have it.
In addition, there are many different psychological causes for sexual loss.
For example, someone may be stressed about life, and it can lead to problems during sex.
Some people may have body image issues, or feel guilty for some reason.
In many cases, sexual problems can be due to a self-fulfilling prophecy. For example, you may be nervous about a new sexual partner, and these worries can lead to ED and other issues.
It Is Treatable
Through medication and therapy, sexual issues are treatable. In many cases, eating well, exercising, and sleeping well can correct some sexual issues. There are medications available to treat many sexual dysfunctions.
Also, therapy can help too, especially for more psychological problems.
However, many of us don’t like talking about it. We live in a world where ED and premature ejaculation is funny, and a world where women not desiring sex is prudish. We do need to tear down those stigmas.
The best way to do so is to normalize discussing and treating these problems. The best first step is to get a
diagnosis. Websites such as Mind Diagnostics allow you to get an idea of what you may have, which will allow you to seek treatment.
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