My father was pretty stoic. Most of the time. Except when he was angry. Then he wasn’t stoic at all.
I thought that was just my Dad. Until I realized that wasn’t my Dad, it was just what was expected of my Dad. That’s what his Dad expected, and his before him. It was what his peers expected, and what his employers expected. And in time, that’s what I expected of him too. Before he died I realized that he deprived himself, all of his life, of all the other strong emotions that made him who he really was.
My Dad is one of the reasons I’m here. We’re doing what we can to change those expectations. To help men stop depriving themselves of their full expression.
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