LeGrande Green, host of Get BOLD Today podcast chats with Tamara Star about men and the friend zone.
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“Needy men, overgivers and nice guys usually finish last for a reason,” says relationship expert Tamara Star. Today on #GoodMenFriday, she tells all with refreshing insights from her article “Why We Push You Out of Our Bed Zone Into the Friend Zone.”
The inspirational founder of Daily Transformations, Tamara says women want a fully embodied man who has done work on himself–and is not looking for a mother. “Dating Mr. Nice Guy is stagnant. It’s like dating yourself. There’s nothing to push up against, and ultimately a woman doesn’t feel met. A woman wants a man to push back but not over.”
“Shift happens right where you are,” says LeGrande. “Be the change and get BOLD today.”
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Originally appeared on www.getboldtoday.com
Why is it that when men makes these same observations, and give other men advice on how to “push back” (or as they say overcome “shit tests”, they are framed as delusional misogynists?
You’ll find on the web any number of women saying they want a man who won’t take their shit. Which means they anticipate giving him shit. Ditto “not let me push him around”. Means they anticipate trying to push him around. Similar expositions of the same thing. What do you bring to the table that a guy should have to anticipate having to deal with shit on a regular basis? One advice counselor said a man who simply takes off instead of putting up with it is “hawt” “We want to see your strength”. You’ll see it disappearing over the… Read more »