The stereotypical Aussie man is strong, stoic and tough as nails. He laughs in the face of fear; and if life ever gets him down he drinks a cup of concrete and hardens the fuck up. But with male suicide rates three times that of women, it appears the pressure to harden up may be making some men crack. Enter Gus Worland, co-host of the Sydney Triple M Grill team and unofficial bloke expert. He’s not a shrink, but he talks, and listens, to men everyday for a living; and he genuinely cares about their welfare. A few years back Gus’ was devastated by the loss of a close mate to suicide. Now Gus in on a mission to find out what it really means to be a man today and how the average Aussie bloke is actually faring.
At .18 “What is a guy. Who’s making the rules up?” In many ways, at least here in America, we are simply forcing another set of rules based upon a new set of expectations by yet another group. One such example would be the assumption that men must change for women when the reality I’m seeing is that women need to change so that men are free to. Yesterday the macho man bullied the soft man, today the soft man bullies the macho man. We have insulting and derogatory hash tags such as #fragile masculnity, that are, of course, just… Read more »
At .18 “What is a guy. Who’s making the rules up?” In many ways, at least here in America, we are simply forcing another set of rules based upon a new set of expectations by yet another group. One such example would be the assumption that men must change for women when the reality I’m seeing is that women need to change so that men are free to. Yesterday the macho man bullied the soft man, today the soft man bullies the macho man. We have insulting and derogatory hash tags such as #fragile masculnity, that are, of course, just… Read more »