TASK #3 SHAKE IT OFF
I don’t chase after anyone, If you wanna walk out of my life, then I’ll hold the fucking door open for you. Wiz Khalifa
It’s time to give your relationships the once-over. You have to know who you are chasing, who are you carrying, and who is walking by your side.
If your chasing someone, and by that I mean you are envious of them and sort of swim in their wake, stop now. If you are carrying someone–someone who is leeching on you for money, or using you to advance themselves at work, or if someone with a poisonous personality has attached themselves to you and you desperately want them to go away, but you don’t have the guts to tell them–tell them!
And take a minute to recognize who is walking beside you–the people who love you, respect you and support you.
Take out your journal. Make 3 columns: Who Am I Chasing, Who Is Hanging On To Me, and Who Walks Beside Me. Then go through you contact list on your phone and put the name of every single person you know in one of the columns.
Then stop chasing, jettison the hangers-on, and celebrate those who walk beside you.
Photos by Loco Steve and Joe Doe