Why will someone love you? Someone will ONLY love you when you are pretty, hot or can say looking at your income or other benefits. People only love you if you have something. Nobody would ever love someone who’s sitting in a corner crying, listening sad songs, watching sad stuff and doing absolutely nothing.
WELL when it comes to true love it’s completely opposite. In true love looks, money or anything doesn’t matter. It’s something real, it’s soul connection, an attachment which feels like heaven. True love is the most beautiful thing, most beautiful feeling ever to experience. If you’re in true love and question yourself “Why Do I Love This Person?” you’ll not have a answer to it. It comes from within, it’s an inner feeling. You, your love & your energy makes that person beautiful, attractive, lovable etc to you. That person may look like a sh*t to others but for you he’s charming. It’s all your energy making you feel all the great things about him. Your energy is so positive towards this person, you see that person as he’s the god. In reality that person is a normal human like others in your life, it’s all your energy making this person someone unique, someone attractive or charming or successful to you. I truly believe that “BEAUTY LIES IN THE EYES OF THE BEHOLDER.” In true love, you will find out yourself focusing on all the good things that person has done for you, no matter how many times that person did wrong! just coz you love that person your brain ignores all of that automatically.
SOMETIMES that person is constantly hurting you, betraying you, ghosting you but your brain is still thinking and focusing on the good things this person has done for you. You blame yourself for all of the worst happening at that moment, you cry, you scream but you still want that person and you still care for that person THAT’S WHAT TRUE LOVE IS.
At the end, love is love and love has only one definition. There’s nothing called true love and love, it’s just love! The world, the generation has made it that if someone’s beautiful you love them, if someone’s wealthy you love them. It’s not love, it’s attraction and greed! The two terms, the differences exist due to the world and generational beliefs and mindset.
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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