
We all want to be successful in life.
But real success doesn’t begin after you “make it,” it starts with how you live before you become successful.
We want too much wealth in life. So we could live fully.
But what if you’re not waiting for wealth… you’re resisting the life you could already have?
That means you can live a peaceful and personal life without even too much money.
Yeah, absolutely, I’m not ignoring money.
What if i would say the people who are real achievers i’ve read about them in books the common thing I’ve grasped is they live their real lives they want before they started accumulating wealth.
They don’t mix their life and work.
Their intentions and thinking process get clearer and clearer and make them consistent on what they were working on when they start living the small moments peacefully and happily.
Which brings us to our main topic of today.
The Small Moments
The small moments are:
- When you desperately want to cry, nobody is there, and you are telling yourself, “you are audacious, you are a man/girl, you know nobody will come to save you, and you know you have to figure everything out by yourself.”
- You are sitting on the bench in the garden, both of your arms behind your head, looking to the sky and thinking about your most beautiful life, maybe it could be about your relationship (most of the time). You are telling her how badly you love her. She responds back, “Yeah, I do too.” You both hug, the peace of mind that single hug gives you; maybe you’ll never find it in wealth as well.
- You are taking a shower and thinking about your parents. They have given me such a beautiful life, I will definitely give them more than they’ve given me.
- Maybe you’re dancing in the kitchen while cooking with your sister, the song is not there, but the mind is matching the frequency of both of you and having fun, and suddenly you think sometimes the most beautiful girl who gives me peace is my own sister.
- Maybe you’re sitting with your momma and thinking how much he had to endure only for me.
- Sometimes while brushing the teeth, you are making your father proud by gifting him a car without any reason in your imagination.
- Sometimes when nobody is watching you, your earbuds inside your ears, you are not just listening to the song, you are dancing with the frequency.
Sometimes reality is not only the truth we are wearing. Sometimes what we are thinking is becoming the reality.
The Cost of Not Living Small Moments
We count troubles more than happiness.
Those little moments remind us what real moments are.
The small moments try to build connection between you and your inner self-consciousness.
“if you don’t spend enough time getting to know yourself, you’ll end up absorbing everyone else’s definition of you.”
Small moments are the meanings of life.
Life’s true meaning often hides in the smallest moments if we don’t live them, we may never find it.
How to Live in Small Moments
Small moments are not what will come tomorrow.
It’s in front of your eyes, maybe you are not able to see it.
That’s all are a small happiness that push you for your greatness, success, new achievements, an excuse to spend little more time with yourself, a little spark to work little more, talk with your brother/sister, etc.
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Easy steps to get there:
- Don’t start your morning in a hurry. Start with no regret of yesterday’s goal.
- Don’t just consume content, feel it. Ask yourself: Is this making me better? Happier? More aware?.
- Don’t start your work with a frustrated mind. if you are frustrated, always think about the best moment you had spent with someone or someone with you. You will get the instant spark or peace to feel the happiness while working.
- Small moments of happiness always come with positive vibes of physical sensation, which your body gives you as a gift to feel and tells you, “This is real joy.”
- Use your memories to revisit the most beautiful, peaceful moments with yourself, with your best friends, with family, with your girlfriend, with your sister, with your teacher, with your cousins, etc. It will help you to add meaning to life and save you from working meaninglessly.
Final Thoughts
Greatness doesn’t always come from big wins, sometimes, it’s built in those quiet mornings when nobody’s watching, in your silly laugh with your sister, in the tear you hide, and in still choosing to keep going.
That’s where real life starts, in those small, raw, honest moments we often ignore.
“Sometimes, the smallest moments in your life have the greatest impact. They soar straight into a place deep inside you… to remind you later, that life and love can bring you magic you didn’t know existed.”
— Angela Richardson
Learn more about life in this article:
https://medium.com/@motivorrnofficial/the-creative-loop-of-life-8f31a933d26b
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