I work with men on personal transformation and I’ve seen some incredible leaps. I’ve also heard a lot of the same stories and fears from my clients… here are some common points I hear a lot.
We waste years alone in darkness, without direction, numb, lacking motivation and without a plan other than to “tough it out.” We somehow think this is manly. We also almost never seem to get any objective quality of life out of this model of behavior.
In other words, we all try to be the lone wolf – and we all suffer for it. We’re less compassionate in our relationships. We’re overly competitive, to the point of losing friendships. We’re stuck in jobs we hate, like martyrs. We’re drained at the end of the day, which is when we wish we had energy to be great fathers, husbands and citizens.
Instead of breaking out of this cycle, we numb out with different forms of addiction and escapism. Left alone, we just keep getting knocked to the mat, each time a little less sure we can get up.
BUT…. When we get in a group with men we trust to both hold us accountable and help us up off the mat when we fall… we excel. Men who are ready to really jump into their self-evolution – if in a group of like-minded men – can empower themselves to drastic improvement across all areas of life.
Group mentorship programs really work. I’ve seen marriages saved or improved, I’ve seen careers jump-started or turned around, I’ve seen businesses take off, I’ve seen men take leaps to their dream jobs, their dream homes, their dream vacations… all because they discovered how incredibly powerful they can be when they believe in their dreams and have a solid plan to achieve them.