Why Did He Block and Delete You After the Breakup?

The handling of feelings varies from person to person.

Some people think that after breakup, they can still be friends when they meet again in the future; others, from the day of separation, directly block and delete.

These people can be roughly divided into three categories, and their thoughts are not complicated.

Can’t let you go in his heart, afraid of pestering himself

After being together for a long time, they have already been accustomed to each other.

In fact, many breakups are not really wanting to end with the other party. The accumulated contradictions in life reach a certain point, and although they are reluctant in their hearts, they also understand that this relationship has no future.

Some breakups are helpless letting go.

Feelings can’t be perfectly ended just by saying “goodbye”.

Can’t let you go in his heart, but also clearly know that the relationship can’t continue. After the breakup, he will be cruel and directly block and delete.

Not for anything else, just for fear of regretting and pestering again.

If both parties have feelings, the non-intersection after the breakup can actually make both parties more clearly see the position of the other party in their hearts, and if there is intention, there will always be a connection again.

Whether it’s changing or making efforts, giving each other another chance.

The most feared thing is that one party has feelings, while the other party has no intention. The uncontrollable love will only make people more humble.

Intends to make a clean break and try to start anew

Blocking and deleting is also a kind of fulfillment.

Fulfill the other party and let you pursue a new life; also fulfill himself and give himself a chance to start anew.

Leaving the contact information of the other party, as long as one party is unwilling, it is difficult for this relationship to truly end.

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So the repeated breakups and reunions have been consuming each other and forming a vicious circle. Also because of such extreme pulling, no one can get out.

But in fact, the person who should leave will still leave, and the person who wants to stay may not be able to stay.

And the person who has been in the same place and unwilling to accept the reality not only wastes his youth, but also misses many good people.

Only when the two people are completely changed from intersecting lines to parallel lines and each goes to their own track, will there be a chance to start again.

Has a new love and wants to cover up your existence

The last one is the most realistic.

Maybe you are still nostalgic, but the other party has already let go. Perhaps in the last period of getting along with you, he has already found a new person, just waiting to end with you.

With a new love, he doesn’t want the other party to see your existence.

No matter what the consideration is, his idea is only one: he doesn’t want to be disturbed by you in his new relationship.

He can be honest with the new person that he has had a relationship, but he won’t be willing to let the other party see or understand more about your past, which is a kind of trouble for him.

Completely erase the connection with you and erase your existence. It can not only make the new lover feel at ease, but also make him more at ease.

After the breakup, blocking and deleting, some people may think that this is a way, a way of playing hard to get, and a way for lovers to cherish and compromise.

In fact, at the moment of truly blocking, that person really thinks that it is better for you to separate.

Therefore, when the feelings haven’t reached a dead end, don’t easily use blocking and deleting to test.

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This post was previously published on medium.com.

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