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In our fast paced, over committed world a lot of people are so busy focused on yesterday or worried about tomorrow that they miss living in the present. They cannot live for today because they are stuck in yesterday. They cannot enjoy where they are because they have to be somewhere else. They become bogged down with so much clutter they cannot see the awesome things in their present.
What good is it to work forty plus hours a week and not enjoy your work? What do you accomplish not living your best today because you are worried about tomorrow or holding onto to something that happened yesterday?
Living in your present takes work
Living in the present takes work. It requires you to cut out the unnecessary and simplify your life. When you decide to live your today in full effect you will experience life in a new way.
The birds will sound clearer. The grass will look greener. The roses will smell fresher. You will see life the way it is meant to be seen.
I am not discrediting that you don’t save for a rainy day. I am not saying you don’t institute plans for tomorrow. Nor am I saying that you will totally forget what happened in your past. But, I am saying you cannot afford to forfeit living today waiting for tomorrow or holding onto yesterday.
I want to encourage you to live your best today. Don’t wait for others to give you permission. Don’t wait for some expert to give you a special formula to follow. Don’t wait for everything to become perfect in your.
Do not get to the end of your life and regret that you did not live in your present. You only get one shot at life and you cannot afford to mishandle it.
Seven keys to start living in your present
Choosing to live in the past or the future not only robs you of enjoyment today, it robs you of truly living. The only important moment is the present moment. With that goal in mind, consider this list of seven keys to start living your life in the present:
1. Take inventory.
You possess unique gifts and talents that are specific to you. No one else in the world has what God gave you. You have within you everything you need to get the job. This does not
mean you have no limitations.
Take inventory of your life, find out your strengths, weaknesses, threats and opportunities. Once you find them design a definite plan of action and take action.
2. Focus on today.
You can take an ordinary magnifying glass and position it in a way to focus the rays of the sun and it will burn a hole in a board in a few minutes. If those same rays are not focused through the magnifying glass, it will only heat the board significantly.
But, when the rays of the sun are focused through that magnifying glass it can do what it cannot do unfocused. Just imagine the power your vision can have in your life and those connected to you when it is focused on what is possible for today.
3. Seek forgiveness.
Don’t live your life frustrated and angry about what others did or did not do. Forgive. Life is too short to hold onto unforgiveness. It can be difficult to forgive someone who done you wrong, but the consequences of not forgiving weighs your life down.
You miss living at your best. You forfeit peace of mind. Free yourself by taking the initiative to forgive. Don’t waste another second, seek forgiveness and move forward.
4. Envision your future, but work hard today.
It is okay to dream big. Set goals and plans for the future. But working hard today is the required first step you must take to realize your vision for tomorrow. Don’t allow dreaming about tomorrow replace living for today.
5. Stop holding onto yesterday’s victories.
What you accomplished ten, five or two years ago was great, but it was for that season in your life. Today is a new day. You cannot live your present stuck on yesterday’s successes. If you are continually talking about what you achieved yesterday then you have not achieved enough for today.
6. Stop worrying.
Worrying does not add to your life, it only subtracts. It holds you hostage from living your best life. You cannot change what happened in the past. You cannot predict what will happen tomorrow.
No amount of worrying will change your situation. You overcome worry by refocusing your thoughts, trusting God’s vision plan and doing what you know is right to do. You cannot fully appreciate today if your mind is stuck on yesterday and your eyes are focused on tomorrow.
7. Think differently.
To live out your present, you must think differently than you did yesterday. Our world changes at such a fast pace that most of yesterday’s solutions are no longer the right answers for today. What occupies your mind and what you think means more to you living successfully in your present than anything else. If you don’t think differently than you did yesterday then your today will look like your yesterday.
“There is nothing more genuine than breaking away from the chorus to learn the sound of your own voice.” Po Bronson
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