There are always two perspectives to every experience. Which one will you choose?
Thinking. We do it nearly every second of our lives. We cannot help it. It is part of our nature. Our parents and friends often influence our mental habits- and these habits can make or break us.
Are your thoughts enabling you to achieve success, or disabling you? It is probably the most important question that you can ask yourself, but how often do you ask yourself that question?
The worse thing that you can do is succumb to the opinions of others. You can become mentally strong by committing yourself to develop emotional intelligence. So, here are five habits that can make you a mentally strong person:
1. Be Willing To Take Risks
Not everyone is courageous. Taking risks can be quite frightening, whether it is quitting your job for an ideal lifestyle or moving abroad to pursue a lucrative business opportunity.
In order to be confident in taking risks, you must increase your ability to live with uncertainty. It does not sound comforting. However, if you never take a chance, then you will always remain where you are currently.
It may be scary, but it does not mean that it cannot be exciting. The thrill of taking the risk can be the very thing that helps you to reach the finish line. Many successful people attribute their success to the risks that they took at the beginning of their journey.
2. Embrace Change
Change does not always sit well with us. Some people enjoy their routines and don’t like rocking the boat. I have routines that I enjoy, myself. Although, once we fall in the comfort zone, it may spell the very end of our growth.
Change serves us. It offers us learning opportunities that ultimately expand our awareness.
Immersing yourself in a different environment can surely do the trick. As an expat, I enjoy a lifestyle that is quite different, and even uncomfortable for some, but it has its benefits.
3. Stay Positive
There are many times when people preach the importance of being positive. Unfortunately, most of these people have trouble maintaining that momentum. Nothing is worse than having a therapist or life coach who is advising you, but fails to apply the same advice to their own life.
Staying positive is extremely important if one expects to become a mentally strong person.
We will always encounter obstacles in our path. For most people, it almost an immediate process to allow their emotions to influence their thoughts and decisions.
There are always two perspectives with which you can view every experience – a positive one and a negative one. The question is: which perspective will you choose?
4. Focus On What You Can Control
One of our main problems is that we worry too much. We often worry about things that we cannot control. Occasionally, I am guilty of it too. Although, we can all do better when we concentrate on the things that matter most in our lives.
While people may attempt to control other people, it is ultimately a waste of one’s time. You do have control over your life. So, invest your time in focusing on your life rather than worrying about others.
5. Always Remember The Big Picture
Everyone has a different conception of the big picture. It is pertinent for us to keep this in mind, or we will risk losing sight of our direction.
The big picture serves to remind us of our purpose as we continue our journey to the finish line. It helps to have someone to join us as an accountability partner; it makes reaching the finish line much easier.
Some people may feel alone on their journey, but an inspirational book, movie, or podcast can definitely curb that feeling of loneliness and remind you of the big picture.
Another version of this article appeared in LifeHack.