Single People Tell Us About Their Worst Break-Up

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Host and comedian Rose Surnow asked people about their worst and best break-ups. Have you ever had a break-up that actually went well? Watch to find out!

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– Worst break up ever is when my, the guy I was dating
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basically told me that he was into my sister
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and like started talking to her instead.
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– Hi, I’m Rose Surnow and this is Inside Intimacy.
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Today we’re talking about breakups.
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Would you like to be in a video that we’re shooting.
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– [Runner] What’s it for?
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– Its for Soul Pancake.
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You guys, I don’t like running.
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– He said something, he’s like well if I wasn’t talking
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to Trinity then I would be talking to Leia.
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And I like, it was a lot,
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I went to the other room and I cried.
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– It was over text message.
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– Rude. – What?
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– I saw him earlier that day at school
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and then later he texted me, and he was like,
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I don’t think like we’re on the same page
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and like I’m not really feeling us anymore
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and I was like, I saw you today, why are you telling me this
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over text, I was just so mad that like
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he couldn’t tell me to my face and he was like,
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I didn’t want to see you cry.
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– He was like texting me and he was like,
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hey come over to my house, and I was like, why?
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And he was like, we need to talk,
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and I was like, nevermind, I’m not coming over
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I already know, so goodbye.
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– She told me that because she knew I had a single parent,
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she was kind of nervous that she’s heard
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that people who have single parents are trouble.
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– That takes a lot of us out of the game.
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– Yeah, it’s true.
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– And what did you say to her?
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That hurt your feelings?
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– Yeah, I think it definitely did, because I feel like
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a lot of people do think that people who have like
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single parents or like, – are messed up or something?
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– Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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– Yeah well both of us have kind of
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like a strange dad situations, there’s like all
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these stereotypes and it’s like, no, if you’re healthy
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and you work on yourself you can still
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have great relationships.
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– Oh yeah, definitely.
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I mean I think that what I told her, I was sort of yelling
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but I was sort of like, I work twice as hard
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as people who have two happy parents.
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– We were dating for like two years
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and we went in my kitchen, we were talking
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he got mad, threw a knife at my counter
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almost hit me, didn’t hit me.
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Yeah and ended it write there.
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– Were you terrified?
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– Yes, yeah, I stormed out of my room
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and like ran away from him, called my mom.
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– I mean you could have like possibly pressed charges.
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– She made him pay for the counter that he broke
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and we moved like that year.
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– Because of him?
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– Yes.
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Because of him.
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– Yeah it was a week before Prom, like and we still
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ended up going to Prom together.
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– Obviously you’re in front of all your friends
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and you’re young so you can’t talk about hurt feelings
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but like were your feelings hurt?
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– No they were hurt, they were hurt,
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like Prom was super weird.
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– And how did you cope with the break up?
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– I sat in a ball on the couch for a really long time.
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– With my bros, I was balling with the bros,
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going crazy.
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– Basically just to deal with it, I went to a bunch
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of parties, got with a bunch of people,
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drank a lot, and kind of just suppressed it
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until it was over and then it was done.
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– What was your best break up, have you ever had
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like a killer good break up, where you’re like
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that went surprisingly good?
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– The best break up I ever had was a girl broke up
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with me over text when I wanted to break up
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with her like three weeks later.
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’cause I feel like for me, you know break ups
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I’m always like I gotta like, see out the birthday,
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I gotta be cool if I run into her family.
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You know wait a few months, wait til the timings great.
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So if someone just texts me and was like, nah we’re good,
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that’s fantastic.
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– Did you ever have a really good break up
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where you were like, that went surprisingly well?
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– You know what, I can’t say that I really did.
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I would always have my feelings hurt.
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Even if it was like me wanting to end the relationship
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there would be something and that’s I mean,
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it all comes back to not loving myself enough but.
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– No, break ups are generally very painful.
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– Yeah, absolutely.
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– I told an ex that I only dated for 90 days.
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And so at the end of 90 days I just went it’s done.
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– Saying I only date people for 90 days
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that was just a way to get out of it,
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that wasn’t true was it?
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– Yeah it wasn’t true, yeah, yeah, it was just a line,
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so yeah, I managed to pull it off.
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– Such a weird thing to say to somebody.
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– I was really good friends with a guy
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that I was dating and I think we both just got
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really bored of each other and we mutually
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at the same time texted each other like,
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do you just want to not talk anymore?
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And then that was it, it was fine,
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we were still friends after.
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– It just taught me, I live my best life
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and I like the relationship I built after that
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was amazing, so, if it wasn’t God’s plan
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it wasn’t God’s plan.
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