About D. A. Wolf

D. A. Wolf is a freelance writer, marketing consultant, and devotee of fine footwear & French lingerie. She admits to two sons in college and eight imaginary friends in Paris. When not saving the world one high heel at a time (or blogging at The Huffington Post), she can be found at Daily Plate of Crazy, reflecting on relationships, parenting, pop culture, and anything else that strikes her fancy. Find her on Facebook at MyDailyPlateOfCrazy or Twitter at Big Little Wolf.

Wall Street Women Lean In, Stay At Home Dads Help Wives’ Careers

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D. A. Wolf is pleased that work and family issues are taking center stage in today’s New York Times. But she thinks the article misses the bigger issues of the economic forces at play in today’s world—for both genders.

On Happy-Peachy Divorce Advice

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A healthy critique of the idea that divorced people should just mellow out and move forward.

Marriage To a Loner: Walking Down the Aisle Alone

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D.A. Wolf’s experience in marrying (and subsequently divorcing) a loner.

I’d Benefit From a Traditional Wife

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Whose life wouldn’t be easier with a homemaker on staff?

Why Do People Expect Us to Remarry?

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A divorced woman joins her partner to attend a party of surprisingly welcoming married couples. The experience gets her thinking about social expectations.

Why Do We Live With Lies in Marriage?

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We’re fixated on infidelity, even entertained by it. But there are worse breaches of trust, unglamorous difficulties that stress and end marriages, problems our society tends to very badly.

Has Obligation Become a Dirty Word?

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It’s necessary to consider what we believe we’re obliged to do in our marriage, and what the consequences are when we fail.

How Much Sex is Too Much Sex?

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D.A. Wolf gets into the question everyone wonders about and nobody wants to be the first to ask.

I’d Rather Have a Man Friend Than a Boyfriend

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D.A. Wolf is too old for “dates” with “boys”… so what’s the right word for the men she likes?

Faithful Women Wanted

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What an ad calling for “faithful women” says about the dating mentality of men, nowadays…