There’s only one way to offer a genuine compliment, and it makes us powerful beyond measure.
The Sexiest 3 Words a Man Can Say to a Woman
Bryan Reeves finds something deeply compelling about being with a woman who can take care of herself, and who enjoys allowing him to take care of her anyway.
Bryan Reeves finds something deeply compelling about being with a woman who can take care of herself, and who enjoys allowing him to take care of her anyway.
Initiating Myself Into Manhood
Growing up without mature masculine role models handed Bryan Reeves the difficult lifetime task of initiating himself into a mature manhood.
You Can’t Push the River
Men are often taught that we can create whatever we want; that we only need a strong enough will to make things happen. Perhaps we can. But at what cost? That’s a question we rarely ask.
8-Step Guide to an Awesome Hug
An awesome hug is an exquisite gift you can give yourself (and others) today. Here’s how to do it properly.
The Masculine Search For Freedom And Why It Matters
Ignorance of the masculine and feminine archetypal energies at play in our intimate relationships, whether straight or gay, can cost us everything.
Why Women Feel Routinely Unsafe and How You Can Change That
We live in a world where women routinely feel unsafe. Every man can play a role in changing that.
It’s Healthy for Men to Question Our Sexuality
The four months I spent questioning my sexuality in the military when I was 22 has made my life vastly richer.
No One Ever Taught Me How to Be a Man
Until I neared my 40th birthday, I never realized what not having healthy masculine role models was costing me and the women I loved.
Until I neared my 40th birthday, I never realized what not having healthy masculine role models was costing me and the women I loved.
This White Man Stands With The Black Men Raising Hell
The fact that our leaders still meet black anger with riot shields and stun grenades is a clear sign that we don’t yet know how to fully care for each other.
Hiding Weakness Kills Men
Most men think we have to bear our burdens alone. We don’t confess our worries, our sadnesses, our confusion, our despair. And that kills men.
Can Men Be Friends With Women They’re Attracted To?
Four aspects of masculine immaturity prevent men from being authentic friends with women. I’ve struggled with all of them. I’m learning.
Aggression isn’t What Women are Most Afraid of in Men
I’ve made a mess of relationships because I was so busy trying to protect women from aggression that I completely overlooked the one thing they were dying for from me.
Video: I Gave Up Women for 30 Days and This is What Happened
After realizing I was using women to fill an internal void, I gave them up completely and discovered three surprises about myself.
Does a Man Walk a Woman to Her Car, Even When She Says No?
Many women have learned not to depend on a man. So when she says she doesn’t need you to walk her to her car, at nighttime, on a dark street, do you walk her anyway?
5 Reasons Why Men Must Give Up Porn
Former US Air Force Captain Bryan Reeves on why giving up porn is essential for modern men who want to have great sex and be in a world that doesn’t abuse women.












