It turns out, depression followed me everywhere I went.
Is Straight Dating Dead?
On heterofatalism, patriarchy, and male versus female sexuality
On heterofatalism, patriarchy, and male versus female sexuality
There Are Still Faint Glimmers of Civilisation
Finding faith in humanity — when all seems dire.
Finding faith in humanity — when all seems dire.
Why 50/50 Feels Unfair to Women
It sounds equal on paper, but not in practice.
It sounds equal on paper, but not in practice.
Letting Go of the Trauma Bond
When the happy ending is letting him go.
When the happy ending is letting him go.
Why Is the Internet So Toxic?
Even the comment sections of “high-brow” media like The New Yorker are full of rude people.
Even the comment sections of “high-brow” media like The New Yorker are full of rude people.
What I Learned From University
The most important lessons weren’t academic.
The most important lessons weren’t academic.
Love Feels Like Her
The depth of female friendship.
The depth of female friendship.
Standards of Success Are WEIRD
The western, educated, industrialised, rich, and democratic bias.
The western, educated, industrialised, rich, and democratic bias.
We Make Mistakes in Order to Grow
You can’t free yourself if you can’t see yourself.
You can’t free yourself if you can’t see yourself.
A Queerplatonic Arrangement
Dating on the aromantic spectrum.
Dating on the aromantic spectrum.
Do You Have a Mental Illness, or Are You Just Human?
Anti-psychiatry and alternative perspectives.
Anti-psychiatry and alternative perspectives.
Girl, Respect Yourself
Beating the fawn instinct.
Beating the fawn instinct.
A Cool Girl in Recovery
On love, when you have received none.
On love, when you have received none.
To Love Is to Suffer
It could make you happier. Or even more lonely.
It could make you happier. Or even more lonely.
To Forge a Family of One’s Own
You can’t choose the family you are born into. But you can choose the ones you cultivate.
You can’t choose the family you are born into. But you can choose the ones you cultivate.















