One doesn’t have to be ‘the loneliest number.’
Healing from Grief in Other People’s Homes
How a steady diet of HGTV provided one man unexpected therapy.
How a steady diet of HGTV provided one man unexpected therapy.
The Week Our Country Was Hazed
The Republican brotherhood acted like a fraternity at the Ford-Kavanaugh hearings.
The Republican brotherhood acted like a fraternity at the Ford-Kavanaugh hearings.
Men and Relationship Abuse
Among gay, bi, and trans men, abuse has reached epidemic proportions. It's time we start talking about it.
Among gay, bi, and trans men, abuse has reached epidemic proportions. It’s time we start talking about it.
When You’re the Only Gay Person You Know
How one record can change your life.
How one record can change your life.
When Did Touch Between Male Friends Become Taboo?
Are we too afraid of going outside our own comfort zone to risk having the kind of friendships we long to have?
Are we too afraid of going outside our own comfort zone to risk having the kind of friendships we long to have?
Quick Exit
"Memory is /not a quiet door opening /but a slam that repeats /its shutting, /making everything smaller /till you are once more in a narrow room /without light /where no one can hear you."
“Memory is /not a quiet door opening /but a slam that repeats /its shutting, /making everything smaller /till you are once more in a narrow room /without light /where no one can hear you.”
Quick Exit
memory is / not a quiet door opening / but a slam that repeats / its shutting
memory is / not a quiet door opening / but a slam that repeats / its shutting
The ‘Fiddlers on the Roof’ of Parkland
Actors are shaped by the plays they perform in. When tragedy struck, drama club students were ready.
Actors are shaped by the plays they perform in. When tragedy struck, drama club students were ready.
The Power and Privilege of ‘Passing’ as Straight
Why, for a passing moment, did I secretly feel pleased that someone might think I was straight?
Why, for a passing moment, did I secretly feel pleased that someone might think I was straight?
Confronting My Own White Privilege
I don’t get a free pass just because I’m also part of a minority that has experienced oppression.
I don’t get a free pass just because I’m also part of a minority that has experienced oppression.
How Joining a Men’s Group Changed My Life
Finding a brotherhood of men helped me to heal.
Finding a brotherhood of men helped me to heal.
What Mary Tyler Moore’s Passing Means to Me: A Gay Man’s Response
Why 'Mary Richards' was my patron saint.
Why ‘Mary Richards’ was my patron saint.