My stepson has unwittingly helped me understand how fear and insecurity is at the root of male violence and aggression, and some effective ways of countering it.
I Have a Confession
Until very recently, I believed I was pretty well up on gender issues.
Until very recently, I believed I was pretty well up on gender issues.
Are Many Men Narcissists At Heart?
And if so, can anything be done about it?
And if so, can anything be done about it?
Beneath a Veneer of Superiority, are Many Men Afraid of Women?
Fear can limit our relationships, but when we understand it, we can do something about it.
Fear can limit our relationships, but when understand it, we can do something about it.
True Love Never Runs Smooth, but why Would You Want it To?
How to turn hurts and misunderstandings into ways that make your relationship stronger.
Releasing the Fear of Not Being ‘Man Enough’ Leads to Greater Intimacy
Many men are blocked from being better lovers because of fear of failure and the taboo we have on talking about those fears.
Violence Doesn’t Work for Humans Any More – Assuming it Ever Did!
We’ll have to rewire our survival instincts if we want to last.
We’ll have to rewire our survival instincts if we want to last.
What to Say to Avoid Misunderstandings if She Asks You THAT Question
Tell her the things you think she needs to hear, but only if they're true. If she is the right one, she will be waiting for you to open up.
Tell her the things you think she needs to hear, but only if they’re true. If she is the right one, she will be waiting for you to open up.
Denying Feminism Isn’t Going to Help end ‘Sex Wars’
Only men and women working together can achieve that.
Only men and women working together can achieve that.
Why are We Still Using the Names of Sexual Body Parts as Insults?
It’s time to start using other words for letting off steam!
It’s time to start using other words for letting off steam!
The Male Violence Virus
By understanding it better we can start to look for a cure.
By understanding it better we can start to look for a cure.
Off the Top of My Head
Yes bro – it’s time to stand up and be counted! To show what we stand for!
Yes bro – it’s time to stand up and be counted! To show what we stand for!
The Walking Dead
A Poem
A Poem
Man Off!
Before you forfeit all hope of love.
Before you forfeit all hope of love.
Sympathy for the Devil?
Good enough? Man enough?
Good enough? Man enough?
Dear God!
Did you? Did you? Did you have to?
Did you? Did you? Did you have to?