To be able to think of myself as a ‘Real Man’.
The Two Different Kinds of Romantic Love
And why they are both essential in a healthy long-term relationship.
And why they are both essential in a healthy long-term relationship.
Buried Pain From the Past Used to Make me Behave Badly
Here’s what I learned I can do about it.
Here’s what I learned I can do about it.
Six Things I Try Never To Do so I Can Be the Guy I Want To Be
And why!
And why!
I Benefited in My Relationships From Other Men’s ‘Bad’ Behaviour– I Just Didn’t Know It
Now I know being ‘good’ is not enough if I want to help stop male violence against women.
Now I know being ‘good’ is not enough if I want to help stop male violence against women.
Are Men Naturally ‘Good’?
And how we can become the best we can be.
And how we can become the best we can be.
Balancing the Inevitable Contradictions of Being a Hu-man
A ‘diagonal’ approach to life.
A ‘diagonal’ approach to life.
Some Men Behave Like Zombies – The Walking Emotionally Dead And Dangerous
What can we do to recognise and neutralise them?
What can we do to recognise and neutralise them?
Twelve Things I Can Do to Combat Male Gender Violence
And why I think I should be doing them!
And why I think I should be doing them!
My Five Simple Steps to Having Better Sex!
I know they seem obvious – but until recently they weren’t all that obvious to me!
I know they seem obvious – but until recently they weren’t all that obvious to me!
The Simple Way I Turn What Might Become Angry Arguments Into Loving Conversations
Disagreements in a relationship are inevitable – here’s how I make them painless and productive.
Disagreements in a relationship are inevitable – here’s how I make them painless and productive.
These Four Words Are Guaranteed to Supercharge Your Love Life
Asking this simple question can make you magically better in bed!
Asking this simple question can make you magically better in bed!
What My Marriage Means to Me
And why I know I'm a lucky man!
And why I know I’m a lucky man.
One of the Most Important Love Lessons I Have (Finally) Learned
With the right approach, conflict with my partner can be a blessing to feel grateful for!
With the right approach, conflict with my partner can be a blessing to feel grateful for!
It Seems That Different Genders are Not so Different After All
So everyone can feel free to be themselves, without worrying about biology.
So everyone can feel free to be themselves, without worrying about biology.
My 16 ‘Rules’ for Living as a Better Man
Sometimes I need to remind myself about what's important.
Sometimes I need to remind myself about what’s important.















