The Shana James Podcast.
Sex & Relationships
Ask Dr. NerdLove: Why Does Sex Ruin My Relationships?
“We had sex a couple of times and it seemed great at the time, and we both said that we had serious feelings for each other (though I said it first).”
“We had sex a couple of times and it seemed great at the time, and we both said that we had serious feelings for each other (though I said it first).”
How to Not Get Attached to Someone in an Almost Relationship
Do not allow a temporary person to make permanent damage to your self-confidence and self-esteem.
Do not allow a temporary person to make permanent damage to your self-confidence and self-esteem.
Facing the Holidays Alone
The times I still feel angry at my ex.
The times I still feel angry at my ex.
How To Avoid Disaster In Divorce
Secrets from a divorce attorney about finding peace in separation.
Secrets from a divorce attorney about finding peace in separation.
Where Do You Seek Your Soulmate? Online Dating is Failing Us All
After nine years of post-divorce dating, this single dad has some answers about finding love again.
Don’t be afraid to fall in love. Be afraid of not having the opportunity to explore your own heart during those moments when it is bursting with passion and joy, as well as the moments when it is breaking with loss and loneliness.
Stories I Tell Myself About Men and Relationships
So that’s why I’m single.
So that’s why I’m single.
How to Survive the Holidays If You’re Single
All of those hallmark cards, flower bouquets in the grocery store, and little chocolate hearts shower us with messages of what our relationships should look like.
All of those hallmark cards, flower bouquets in the grocery store, and little chocolate hearts shower us with messages of what our relationships should look like.
Why Your Energy is Keeping you Single: Lessons Learned for Self-Care
Somehow as the last single person you receive the brunt of unsolicited advice about your dating life as if getting married made your friends experts in relationships.
Somehow as the last single person you receive the brunt of unsolicited advice about your dating life as if getting married made your friends experts in relationships.
The Real Challenges of Dating Someone over 50 on the Spectrum
Life can be challenging when there are natural communication problems.
Life can be challenging when there are natural communication problems.
Ask Dr. NerdLove: How Do I Stop Being Too Intimidating To Date?
My last boyfriend left me because my not being “more damsel-y” made him feel unneeded and emasculated.
My last boyfriend left me because my not being “more damsel-y” made him feel unneeded and emasculated.
Elicit Emotions
Creating emotion in everyone you speak to will really make you memorable.
Creating emotion in everyone you speak to will really make you memorable.
5 Reasons You’re Having Bad Sex
Sex, like anything else, takes time and intention.
Sex, like anything else, takes time and intention.
Are You Accidentally Ruining Your Relationship?
Complacency can signal the end of your relationship, whether it be a quick demise or a long-winded withdrawal by both partners… or it can be the start of a bright new future together, depending on what action you are prepared to take:
Complacency can signal the end of your relationship, whether it be a quick demise or a long-winded withdrawal by both partners… or it can be the start of a bright new future together, depending on what action you are prepared to take.
What does Being ‘Codependent’ Really Mean?
If you wonder why you find yourself in one toxic relationship after another this may answer that question.
If you wonder why you find yourself in one toxic relationship after another this may answer that question.
Finding Light In Darkness: How Vulnerability Strengthens Relationships
Showing your vulnerability is never easy. We are afraid of being judged.
Showing your vulnerability is never easy. We are afraid of being judged.