5 Red Flags That Signal He Is Not Interested in You

Sandra Allison recently met this guy who she really like, and they started dating and her heart was filled with excitement she can’t wait to spend the rest of her life with him…

She started doing everything in her power to make sure the relationship works out fine without even being sure if he feels the same way about her.

Not until things start going bad and she found herself ignoring the really bad ones because she don’t want to admit the person she love isn’t actually that great for her,

Unfortunately she found herself in a terrible relationship and start wondering what could be the problem and wondered if he even loved her.
Would it be that she is in a one-sided relationship?

Here are 5 signs his not interested in you.

1. He is only interested in his feelings.

There’s no getting around this…
If he is only interested in his feelings and needs, he’s not interested in you.

To be specific, if he never bothers to ask about your feelings or if he’s not interested in you let alone your problems, and if he often forgets or never remembers things that are important to you then he is not interested in you.

A guy who truly likes you would never ignore all that concerns you instead he will shower you with attentive care and tends to bring the better part of you as he will always try to be a better partner.

So if your boyfriend or partner no longer has an interest in your feelings and needs or he only interested in his feelings and need is a sign that means he is playing you.

All you need to do is to use the exit to get out of his life.

2. You’re the only one who suggests meet-ups.

No matter what you think, If you’re always the one suggesting meet-ups, then I will say, you’re the one chasing him not him chasing you.

And if you are the one that always suggests where and place to meet up or organize all the dates and he doesn’t care or seem to do anything about it.

Then he is probably not interested in you. and it is one of the biggest turn-off of relationships.

Because partner or boyfriend who is truly into you will always make effort in suggesting and organizing dates as he will always like to prioritize time together with you because a partner who loves you will always make sacrifices of their own time to find a solution where you both feel satisfied.

Suggesting meet up and organizing data suppose to be the work of both spouses but if it is only left for you then you should stop daydreaming about the both of you in the future and use exist button out of the relationship.

3. They don’t post pictures of you on their social media pages but they post pictures of other female friends.

I see many guys on social media who endlessly post pictures of their girlfriends or partners with “LOML and QOMH” captions. And most of the time it is because they are happy with the presence their girlfriend or partner in their life and probably expects them to be there for a long time.

While posting of partner’s picture on social media shows how comfortable and proud you are with your relationship. it doesn’t make sense for a partner, not to post pictures of his or her partner and post pictures of other friends as it shows that they’re not proud of their partners.

So if your boyfriend doesn’t post your picture on social media but post pictures of other female friends his probably choosing them over you which show his not interested in you and he is only playing you as that means he is not proud of you or not happy having you in his life.

4. He often chooses his phone over you.

One of the most common things done by a guy who is not interested in you is that they often ignore you and focus on texting or talking to other people.

Spending time or staying with a partner who is often busy with their phone anytime you are together with them is totally nerve recking and its threat to our mental health.

Partners who always get busy on their phone anytime we are together with them always erode our self-esteem, boldness and tend to make us wonder if our existence really matters as it make us feel rejected and dejected.

So if your boyfriend always spend his entire time on his phone texting or talking to other people whenever you are together with him his assumably not interested in you because he never value your presence in his life or around him.

It’s better not to be in a relationship then to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t value your existence.

5. He makes you feel bad about yourself.

Being in relationship with someone that truly love you is one of the best dream one could ever dream of, because it is not easy to love and be loved back.

Having a boyfriend or partner who truly loves you and will never let you down instead, he will lift you up and make you feel good, as he will always love you for you and he will make you feel like a queen.

What’s more, a guy who is interested in you will always try to make you feel happy as seeing you happy is his number one priority.

But a guy who is only playing you will always make you feel like you’re not worthy of his attention and love and like you don’t deserve to be with him.

And if staying with your boyfriend always drain your self esteem or lower your confidence, you don’t deserve to be with him then his just playing in you.

Because, that’s far from the truth because you’re more than good enough for him.

Final thoughts

If you’re just making excuses for his lack of interest or effort and trying to convince yourself that things are not as bad as they seem, you will continue to be in a terrible relationship.

Because if it doesn’t look like he’s into you, he isn’t, so stop wasting your time and move on.

Besides, there is no point in being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t like you because as I early said it’s a threat to your mental health and it’ll drain your self-esteem.

You deserve to be in good relationship where you’ll be treated like queen and not a relationship that will always pull you down.

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Previously Published on medium

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