1. Looks at You Whenever She Laughs
If a woman is interested in you, she will most likely look at you first when you’re in a group of friends and everyone starts laughing.
The psychological and biological reasoning behind this telltale sign is that she’s genuinely interested in your reaction and wants to see if you thought it was funny too.
She wants to evaluate you and is still making some conscious judgments on what you think is funny and how you too will function together as a pair. She may look at a different person each time something is funny, but if she sways towards you, she’s interested. However, be careful of watching for her reactions, where she might be curious if you’re looking at her too, and things can get awkward quickly.
2. Dilated Pupils
When someone sees something they are psychologically attracted to, their pupils will physiologically increase in the size three times to allow more light so that they can further observe the attractive stimulus.
She likes you and wants to take all of you in, and to do so her eye’s muscle is much more light and so her pupils will dilate. It may be hard to see this from afar but if you can offer her something or ask her a question, make sure to pay close attention to her pupils before and after looking at you, as other things can cause dilated pupils beforehand such as sunlight, alcohol. Notice the change not just the size of the pupils.
3. Pointed Feet
Whenever you’re in a conversation with her look and see where her feet or toes are pointed.
If they’re pointed towards you, it’s a good sign. Body language is a huge indicator of attraction. And most of the time these are unconscious signs that are hard to duplicate consciously or to create a false positive. If she feels safe around you and opens toward you, her feet and torso will show especially in a group of more than five people.
If her body is open to specifically showing you more than two of the signs. She’s interested in you.
4. Multiple Glances
One lens can mean anything two lenses mean she’s curious and any more can signify that she’s attracted to you.
Watch for her across the room and see if she keeps checking in on you. It’s probably because she’s attracted to you. She doesn’t want to lose the opportunity to be near you or talk to you.
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5. Touch Their Lips All The Time
If she touches her lips when she’s around you or she’s looking at you this is a good sign.
If she looks at your lips, however, then it is a great sign. This is usually done subconsciously in a matter of milliseconds. But a glance on your lips surely means she’s attracted to psychological matters.
6. Plays With Her Hair When Looking At You
While she’s talking to you she may play with her hair.
This may be turned both ways though, as some say could be a sign that she wants to be away from you and wants to find comfort. If she’s playing with it and her palm is pointing towards you, she probably feels safe, which is a good thing.
If she’s fixing it up to make it look better, she’s probably attracted to even mature attention and this is also a good thing.
However, if she pulls it up away from her neck, this can mean two different things. She could be showing you that she feels safe and is doing so by allowing you to see what are the most important parts or she could be doing it as stress and thereby temperature has risen and then she wants to get away. But if she’s truly attracted, she’ll be back.
7. Talks About You With Her Friends
This one is important.
If she talks about you with her friends. I mean she’s cognitively thinking on a level that isn’t subconscious, which means that she’s aware of her attraction for you and has already started debating on whether or not to act on it. Try to talk to her friends casually and see if she says anything.
If you do this with someone you’re not comfortable with it may seem like you’re probing and asking questions about her. When she hears about this from her friends, she will go nuts. Of course, they may lie and say that she hasn’t said anything and they might also say that she has, even though she has one of these tips.
8. She Accidentally Touches You
Accidental touching has huge psychological value.
You can tell if it’s accidental or not by just using common sense. Was she should making a job out of being next to you or was she simply walking by you and accidentally bumping.
Also if it happens more than once and she apologizes about it more than she probably should. It might mean that she isn’t doing it on purpose and doesn’t want to come off creepy.
9. Gets Nervous Around You
You kind of have to be around for more than a couple of times to start noticing her behavior and see if she gets nervous around you.
Remember in middle school when you could always talk to people who liked each other by just the way they acted, that familiar awkwardness that so many of us pushed to never look back on.
If it was two people who had no attraction to each other, the awkwardness signs weren’t there unless they were both just awkward, which is describing my entire middle school experience.
But really if she gets nervous around you is probably a sign of attraction, and that she doesn’t want to mess up a future with you. If she doesn’t care about a future with you, she probably won’t be nervous.
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Interesting article! I’ve always found it fascinating how our body language and behavior can reveal so much about our feelings. Getting nervous around someone can definitely be a sign of interest. I think it’s important to pay attention to these psychological signs while also considering individual differences. Not everyone expresses their attraction in the same way, but these signals can certainly give us some valuable insights. Have you noticed any other psychological signs that indicate someone’s interest in you? Would love to hear your thoughts!https://www.scottsdaleazdrywall.com/