
According to national surveys conducted by the American Psychological Association, close to half of US adults say politics are a significant stress point. Respondents listed problems such as lost sleep, shortened tempers, and obsessive thoughts.
What steps can people take to protect their health, maintain relationships with those they may disagree with, and address their anxiety?
Afton Kapuscinski, associate professor of psychology and director of the Psychological Services Center at Syracuse University, says being present in the moment, regulating your body, and focusing on your gratitude list can help combat negative emotions. Kapuscinski’s research relates to the treatment and prevention of mental health issues in adults.
Kapuscinski has talked extensively about navigating family conflict and mental health as it relates to political discourse.
Here, she provides practical strategies to protect mental and physical health and build bridges with those we disagree with:
Not all strong reactions are pathological, and self-reflection can often help us identify when our response to stress has become problematic.
Identifying a few issues to follow closely frees up time and energy to engage in political activism and advocacy in those areas, which in turn may buffer against feelings of helplessness.
Alternatively, we might consider shrinking the time available for getting sucked into social media by purposefully filling our schedule with valued activities, such as sports, socialization, and volunteer work.
Conversations work better when both parties are genuinely open to learning about what underlies the other’s beliefs and noticing points of overlap. Even if these conversations do not result in agreement, they may lead to other valuable outcomes like increased intimacy with a loved one. A compelling example of this type of dialogue was featured on a recent podcast episode of “This American Life” (Episode 854: Ten Things I Don’t Want to Hate About You).
Regulate your body. Emotions are often referred to as feelings because they are deeply connected to our physical state; we experience them in our bodies. When our heart is pounding and our muscles are tense, we’re more likely to perceive threats around us. By calming our bodies, we can help ease our minds. This can be achieved through activities like exercise, guided meditation, physical touch, or any method you know helps your body relax.
Use gratitude to balance negativity during stressful times. Make an effort to reflect on positive experiences, thank others, and lean in to aspects of your life that make you feel grateful. A parallel idea involves seeking news outlets that specifically publish good news or frequenting sections of media websites devoted to inspiring and uplifting stories.
I am not suggesting we compromise our beliefs, but instead consider that, from a psychological perspective, polarized groups tend to characterize each other in stereotypes and view the opposing group as more threatening, which results in reduced willingness to have meaningful dialogue and lower expectation of finding any common ground.
Research suggests that the more news and social media we consume (which has become highly polarized), the more likely we are to hold stereotyped views of others and to inaccurately estimate the percentage of people who hold both moderate and more extreme views on political issues. Thus, seeking out varied news sources and conversations across the political divide has the potential to reduce harmful bias and promote more productive dialogue.
Source: Syracuse University
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