I’ve never heard anyone say that relationships are easy. For most of us, in addition to joy and pleasure, there is pain and struggle.
Some of the pain comes from the tendency to choose partners who are familiar to us.
This familiarity comes from the relationship models we learn in childhood. Most of our parents didn’t model healthy relationships for us. This leaves us choosing unhealthy dynamics to feel “at home.”
What dynamics are familiar to you? What do you choose again and again that is painful?
Pain also happens when old wounds and triggers show up with a partner. Even though history is more to blame than the current situation, it seems like it’s your partner’s fault!
Did you know that you can actually get to the root of your suffering, and unravel those patterns, so you struggle less and love more?
Today’s Man Alive podcast guest, Lion Goodman, four-time author, consultant and belief therapist, shares powerful wisdom about how to stop relationship pain at the source!
In our conversation we discussed…
- The core relationship issues and how to navigate them with maturity and care
- How learning to respond, rather than react, decreases conflict and rebuilds trust
- Why recurring fights are a powerful doorway to your healing
- How narcissism, attachment and codependence play into relationship struggles
- What works when you find yourself in a painful dynamic with your partner
Lion is a powerful teacher. He is deeply educated in psychological and spiritual wisdom and he speaks in a way that is approachable and understandable! Check out this conversation so you can make your relationships more loving and less painful!
Lion Goodman has been called a belief therapist, a subconscious pattern detective, and a healer of the psyche. He helps people heal core wounds from childhood and delete old programming from their subconscious mind. This process clears away limitations, resistance, and blocks that interfere with creating the life you want, whether in relationships, finances, health, wealth, work, or family. Lion has led training in the art of manifestation, how to improve relationships, healing male narcissism, clearing beliefs to change your reality, and healing childhood wounds and has written four books: Creating On Purpose: The Spiritual Technology of Manifestation, Clear Your Beliefs, The Narcissism Primer and Menlightenment – A Book for Awakening Men, plus dozens of articles on consciousness, beliefs, psychology, and inner development.
Previously Published on shanajamescoaching.com