Whether you believe “I’ll never succeed,” or “I always succeed,” you will prove yourself right, because that is the nature of beliefs – they are always self-verifying.
About Lion Goodman
The Discomfort of the Unknown
Beliefs are useful. They eliminate the discomfort of the unknown.
Beliefs are useful. They eliminate the discomfort of the unknown.
Distracted? Getting Sidetracked? Here’s How to Awaken Your Will
Have you ever set out to accomplish a particular task, and found yourself distracted or sidetracked, having forgotten your original intention?
Have you ever set out to accomplish a particular task, and found yourself distracted or sidetracked, having forgotten your original intention?
Do You Judge Yourself? Others? (Don’t Worry, You’re Human)
We know what it feels like to be judged by another person. It feels crappy. So why do we do it to others?
We know what it feels like to be judged by another person. It feels crappy. So why do we do it to others?
Try Believing Six Impossible Things Before Breakfast. See What Happens.
Every great invention was once an impossible dream.
Every great invention was once an impossible dream.
How Laws Replaced Our Virtues
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Do what makes you and others happy. If there were suddenly no rules and no laws, that would suffice to allow us to get along with each other.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Do what makes you and others happy. If there were suddenly no rules and no laws, that would suffice to allow us to get along with each other.
If You Make People Feel Shame, You Can Easily Control and Manipulate Them
If you make people feel shame, you can easily control and manipulate them.
If you make people feel shame, you can easily control and manipulate them.
An Open Apology to Women – From One Man
I wish I could speak on behalf of all men, but sadly, most men have not yet awakened to the truth of the damage we have done to women.
I wish I could speak on behalf of all men, but sadly, most men have not yet awakened to the truth of the damage we have done to women.
Veni, Vidi, Vici: The Biggest Mistake a Man Can Make
It’s time to put away the survival strategies we learned from previous eras: control, conquest, subjugation, diminishment, power-over and objectification.
It’s time to put away the survival strategies we learned from previous eras: control, conquest, subjugation, diminishment, power-over and objectification.
Love Is Not the Same
The changeable nature of true love, from day to day, and from human to human.
The changeable nature of true love, from day to day, and from human to human.
Confessions of a Recovering Narcissist
Lion Goodman realized he was a narcissist, and he wanted to change. But first he had to learn how to be unselfish.
Lion Goodman realized he was a narcissist, and he wanted to change. But first he had to learn how to be unselfish.
30 Ways to Make Yourself Miserable (Along with Everyone Around You)
Lion Goodman shares the secret techniques to suffering.
How Do You Know if You’re a Narcissist?
Lion Goodman offers a test to help determine if you’re living a narcissistic life, and some motivation to help you get past your ego storms.
How Narcissism Harms Your Relationships
How to shut up and listen: Lion Goodman's advice on improving our relationships by becoming more empathetic and less self-centered.
How to shut up and listen: Lion Goodman’s advice on how to improve our relationships by becoming more empathetic and less self-centered.
5 Surprisingly Loving Ways to Leave Your Lover
Breakups don’t have to be messy. Lion Goodman has discovered the art of clean endings.
Confronting Stuff: The Matter That Matters
Lion Goodman faces years of accumulated stuff when he moves in with his fiance. What he discovers in letting go is surprisingly simple.