Question: I’m 19 and I’m going through a bit with a relationship of mine. I was wondering if there would be any way for us to talk about how things could play out? I really really love this girl. I had a crush on her since Grade 2. I’m going into my second year of college, we’ve been dating for a year and 6 months and it’s been a bumpy ride!
Answer: First I just want to say thank you. I’ve had clients as young as 17 in Germany asking permission if they could work with me… It’s amazing that at 19 yrs old, my message resonates with you. I do believe challenges of the heart go beyond age, gender, culture etc. I’m sending you a humongous showering of love and believing in your badass nobility!
Of course we can talk… I’m sure you know I work privately one-on-one with clients. You can apply for a complimentary session if you’re ready to move forward with one of my private coaching packages at www.AllanaPratt.com/connect.
Given you’re in college it might be a wiser financial decision to be in my monthly men’s training call called The Mancave. This is an cost effective way to get Live laser coaching with me in a group of freaking bad ass amazing men from their early 20s to their late 60s.
First and foremost I want you to know that bumps in a relationship are natural, normal, healthy and meant to support you both in growing and evolving. All the Disneyland fairytale illusions that it’s the ‘right relationship’ if you never fight… It’s total BS. (Of course if there’s abuse, disrespect, cruelty… then leave.)
Relationships of longevity are ones where both people take full responsibility for their growth opportunities and treat each other with non-judgment, allowance and a boatload of appreciation.
Of course this is insanely difficult when your heart hurts!
Or if you close your heart and spin in your head!
Or if you don’t you’re worth and give away your power!
Or if you bump up against an area of pain (inner growth) and you don’t know what to do!
I am no different than you great young man. I need someone to see my blind spots. I have three coaches right now that support me spiritually, healthwise, and business. I couldn’t support my global group of clients if somebody didn’t have my back! All kings and queens have trusted advisors, yes? Everyone deserves a safe place to land 🙂
So until I learn more about what’s going on specifically that’s making this ride a particularly bumpy one, I invite you to join the monthly training call! There’s no obligation, so you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by joining us this month 😉
You can sign up here 🙂 The ManCave- where men become Kings.
I’m confident this will support you in letting go of unhealthy control, dissolve of any unhealthy nice guy tendencies, connect you to your grounded, centered wisdom, and really discover practical ways to be a solid man that will make her surrender and open in gratitude for you.
Let’s do this.
Huge love and bold blessings, Allana xox
p.s. Gentlemen…End the Fear of Rejection.
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Ladies…Be irresistible. Feel sacred. Attract him now.
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