Is a Long-Term Relationship Even Worth a Shot Anymore?

So, how’s your weekend? Still, swiping on Bumble?

No judgment — just casually asking.

I’m tired of those Reels video that tells you it’s better to be single. They said there’s no point in trying to be in a relationship anymore because well, all people just want to hook up.

But if that’s the only case, then how could so many other singles out there complain they want nothing but a genuine connection?

I am never against online dating (although I talked about the downside of it sometimes) — just because I believe there are people who still want to be in a relationship.

It’s great to be independent and be happy in your own company but there’s also nothing wrong if you want to find somebody to settle down with.

We all know it feels good to love and be loved by the right person. Even if it takes a long time to find it, some people are still willing to go through the pain.

Sadly, the media around us lately have highlighted a single life more than being in a relationship. In no way I’m against those who are single.

I went through a period in my life as well where I was single and truly happy.

But to be honest with you, it’s easier to stay in that phase rather than try to be in a relationship again.

It just felt…comfortable. Especially when your heart has been broken before, opening up to someone new might feel like a real challenge.

It’s hard to be vulnerable.

It’s hard to trust again.

It’s hard to believe and have hopes after so many times in the past receiving nothing but disappointments.

Even after you’re sure this person is “the one”, trying to maintain it won’t feel like a walk in a park.

After many years together, I still don’t know how to communicate my needs perfectly. There’s always something to learn to make it better.

So with all that being said, is a relationship worth a shot anymore?

I can confidently say “yes”.

Good for you if you genuinely enjoy your alone time but if deep down you feel like you’re ready to love someone else other than yourself, don’t let that fear hold you back.

You never know — it might be the best experience you have.