Men often come to me exasperated.
They’re working hard at their job, helping out at home, and with their kids. And then they hear their partner say, “I don’t feel like you’re on my team.”
It often leaves a guy feeling blindsided. What? Not on your team? I’m busting my ass for you.
Have you ever been told that you’re not on your partner’s team?
It can be a dispiriting moment when you’re trying to show up in a good way with your partner. And often, it can get you feeling down on yourself.
You might even leave you wondering, Is anything I do good enough for her?
What if instead of kicking yourself you did something else?
What if you did a pivot?
You know, that simple move on the basketball court.
Pivot away from her and back to yourself the next time your partner says, I don’t feel like you’re on my team. It’s a great tactic to not be at the mercy of your partner’s complaints.
Say what, a basketball move?
Yes, the pivot. Remember this one word the next time you feel your partner coming at you with a charge.
Find out how in the super short video below.
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Previously Published on stuartmotola.com
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