
On the way home, returning from holidays, I was thinking about change and growth. My wife listened to (her favorite) medium and decided to share some of the medium’s ideas.
Although (as she might put it) her medium is not my top choice, I must admit her ideas sometimes affect my thinking.
She was explaining some things. And how, why, or when those things are not in vibrationally compliant with us.
But then I thought that new things usually are not vibrationally compliant with you. Maybe the basic idea behind them is. But it seems we need to give ourselves (more) permission to seek out those that change our frequency/vibration to a better, higher one.
Sometimes — not always / not, as a rule — we need to change our vibration to move forward. But if we don’t allow it to change, we won’t move forward.
And we need to seek the good, the better, and the more compelling in the seemingly disagreeable. Like I am used to looking for the good in the bad. And I always find something that lifts my awareness and changes me.
But the precondition is that I want to accept and change, grow, and heighten my vibration.
But when sometimes my wife tells me something (I tried to introduce to her) doesn’t resonate with her, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s not meant for her.
It makes sense to me to be more tolerant of diverse ideas. Perhaps sometimes we have to give ourselves permission to raise our vibration… to recognize we can benefit from a particular thing that will lift and upgrade us.
Although then, I can always conclude that there are no wrong choices, only the ones we choose. And to add an observation from my other article:
“Sometimes our life lessons, the learning process, need repetition to get reinforced.”
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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