The second name of relationships is truth and honesty, and in such a situation, if we say that lying can strengthen your relationship, then you feel that you have been on the wrong advice, but here we are talking about such a lie which will harm no one. Rather, the listeners will like this lie very much.
If your wife asks you whether She have become fat already even though she has gained weight, you can say that absolutely not, you are not fat; you are healthy and look more beautiful than before.
Similarly, if your wife asks how does this colour look on me, then if you say that you don’t like wearing it, she will get irritated, better you say it is very cool but if you wear this colour instead, then you will look even more beautiful…
If the husband has tried to feed it by making something and the taste could not be that good, even then you say that the effort is commendable, next time you try a little of this spice in it, then the test will be different.
If you don’t like your husband talking loudly on the phone, then directly say this to reduce the volume or say how loud you speak – your low voice sounds very husky and sexy, then watch him from next time. Will speak slowly.
If you don’t like your husband’s interference in some work or you don’t like his way of working, then say that if you don’t know then don’t, but say that you have already helped so much, then now let me do this work or say That you do that work because you will do it better than me and I do it… or you can also say that if you are tired then you take rest and I will take care of the rest.
If the husband’s belly is out, then do not taunt him or compare him with any of his friends, rather say that someday I am thinking of dieting, if you also support me, then I will get motivation, so please help me to be fit. Help me and if I stay fit then you will also like it, right?
Similarly, if the husband feels that the wife needs dieting, then it is better to give the example of a neighbour than to say that my clothes are getting a little tight, so in the morning I am thinking of jogging and dieting but you have to support me.
Sometimes, tighten the strings in false praise of each other, it will be good for both of you.
Not only the partner, there is no harm in telling a very nice lie with the rest of the family as well, it will make them feel better, which will make them happy and the relationship will also be strong.
If the husband does not pay much attention to the children or avoids responsibility, then tell them that the children often say that you do not know anything possible, the father seems more intelligent, so from tomorrow we will study from him, by saying that the husband is responsible towards the children. They Will play more happily and this will also strengthen their bonding with the children. Also, one of your work will be reduced.
If your wife and your mother do not get along, then tell your wife that mother often praises your work and food, mother says that the poor man is busy at work all day, he does not get any rest, and I too keep saying something. But she tolerates it all.
Similarly, tell your mother that your daughter-in-law often says that I wish I could cook delicious food like my mother, the taste in her hands is not in mine, she does everything with ease. With such things, a positive feeling will arise in the mind of both of them and bitterness will be removed.
If the wife feels that the husband and wife’s family does not make much, then whenever the wife comes from the maternal home, she tells that the parents always say that they have got a son as a son-in-law, how noble, keeps the daughter happy and No one gives any kind of trouble, otherwise, where do you find such boys in today’s world.
Tell your parents that they always appreciate the rituals of our house that your parents have given such good values that you took care of my whole house so well. With all this, tension, work and love will increase between all of you.
Apart from this, always keep one thing in mind that in the early stages of marriage, never share your dark secrets with anyone, do not tell your partner about your affairs or fantasies etc. with enthusiasm. Even later, even if both of you have unwavering faith, but never share these things.
Even if the partner tries to ask in different ways, even then the lie told by you here can save your relationship from deteriorating!
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This post was previously published on medium.com.
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