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[Music]
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is the camera on uzi’s face dad i need
00:58
my heart
00:59
you need your what oh my god
01:02
over there because i gotta get whenever
01:23
dad i can’t
01:30
[Music]
01:32
because he’s just saying that because
01:34
it’s dark no we’ll see we’re not going
01:36
on a road trip buddy
01:38
[Music]
01:51
i mean you can’t call it a road trip
01:52
it’s probably a 40 minute drive
01:54
ryan raya raya raya yeah is that gonna
01:58
be happening
01:59
what what’s happening right there back
02:01
there i’m singing by camera you’re
02:04
singing to the camera you do your thing
02:05
dude
02:19
and the little kids who came by selling
02:20
on their choice walked by again they
02:22
were like
02:23
we’re doing another thing for school
02:24
they’re having those big old envelopes
02:26
that you sell candy
02:27
yeah i was like well can you go back on
02:29
monday or something because we’re about
02:30
to leave or whatever
02:31
he’s like
02:32
okay he’s like i saw you on an ad
02:36
i saw you on an ad oh no
02:38
i was like no i don’t think so
02:40
he was like yeah it was for clorox
02:42
laura i was like nah that wasn’t me what
02:45
is clark oh that’s mr queen i thought he
02:47
was trying
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i was like that wasn’t me bro
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he was like yeah it’s the same face i
02:53
was like bro i don’t work with clorox
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it was not me
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and then the kids were are you filming
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the trip
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i was like yeah cuz i was like
03:13
[Music]
03:22
did it hit you
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yep no it doesn’t matter if it hurt it
03:25
or not was he stopped throwing your
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shoes at people
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and what do you mean he didn’t mean to
03:31
yep he did
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he didn’t
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how do you know
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because i saw no no no
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who were you trying to hit
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he was trying to hit me i’m not talking
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to you ryan
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who’s he who were you trying to hit
03:51
who
03:58
why are you guys all protected
04:00
he’s the one beating the hell out of
04:01
everybody in here he’s beating you all
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up
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well
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but dad the way he takes bb27 the way
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you edit it’s funny
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you put it in our own brains
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[Music]
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because then he’s gonna think that when
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you hit people it’s funny and it’s funny
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now when he’s two but when he’s four and
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he get beat up and he gets he hits a lot
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harder you guys know how uriah hits
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everybody
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he doesn’t hit people for play
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and then he kicks me in the back and
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punches me in the back of the head and
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then i have to hit him back and then he
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starts crying that’s what that’s the
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potential so we’re not going to let uzi
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hit us like that
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okay
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that’s from
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wyatt because bryan lay him in your face
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ryan didn’t hit you in the face
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any kids blaming people
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really hits him
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yo i have my own face no i know
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[Music]
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the real rude
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thing to people we’re just hanging out
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we’re having a family vacation family
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staycation
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at a house
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not too far away from where we live but
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um
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it’s like a dream home kind of yeah
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my goal like i like playing tennis it’s
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like one of my favorite things to do
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ever
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um
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i might be getting some lessons soon or
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something
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but i love tennis and so it has a tennis
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court which is crazy
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and then
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he didn’t say it i don’t really care
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about the pool i want a pool did i tell
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you that i now want to pool in our dream
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house what are you gonna learn how to
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swim
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well you gotta mind your business
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sometimes i lose grip of what’s possible
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instead of staying in that place i wanna
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remind myself of my future so trips like
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this that aren’t far away from home but
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are in places we can’t yet afford is us
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seeing ourselves in our own vision board
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i couldn’t believe that people really
06:15
lived like this and while i was there i
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was like why can’t we
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running forever
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eyes have never seen
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aids never hurt
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they say boy you live like that your
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life must be observed so i turn the
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camera on and let them all observe
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[Music]
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if you look at our children their
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demeanor is that they belong here this
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is their reality and in the beginning i
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was letting my poverty mindset rub off
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on them because i didn’t want them to be
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spoiled or have too much but now i’m
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like nah
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this is what you get when you work hard
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they believe that this is their
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birthright
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anaya literally asked if we could stay
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here forever and just get rid of our old
07:01
house trade them uriah said we can just
07:04
trade them and they can live where we
07:05
live and we can take this and i was
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trying to explain to him how the world
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works and how money works and how houses
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work
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and i just realized that if he believes
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it then sure we’ll see buddy and this i
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know they were serious anaya didn’t get
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in the car we were waiting for her
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trying to leave and she just refused to
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get in the car like no this is a sit-in
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i’m staying here you guys leave and i’ll
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be here what what i’m gonna go to
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night you want us all to leave you here
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i wanna stay
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well we’re not you wanna stay in the
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relief
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you want to go without us
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you want to stay here with me without
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you
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okay
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and it’s something about having a
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daughter that makes you want to make all
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her dreams come true so i’ma do it like
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i’m gonna live in the house that we all
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wanna live in because after losing
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people that i love right i realize how
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short this life is
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and i know that i have to make the most
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of it while i’m here because even after
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this life we have better things coming
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so it’d be nice to get used to it
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[Music]
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you
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