Love is not blind, love teaches you how to forgive and move on. With the first smile or word.
With no explanations and no prior judgment, you swear you are furious, and you will stop talking with him.
And suddenly when he shows up, you fall in his charisma, right when he calls your name. The way he pronounces it makes you love your name even more!
This is when you know you are madly in love. The toughest part is that you are aware of your situation and that his charming personality does not guide you.
You know your partner is caring, and you must sometimes lower your expectations about what you are waiting for from him.
Normally, we keep expecting that our companion has the same perceptions as us, and the same reactions, the way he expresses his feelings.
I am always wondering, does anyone have these same emotions of doubts and fear. Do people doubt their feelings? Do people think or notice if it’s a red flag? And I should go? Or it’s a typical relationship life?
And I come to this conclusion, we keep giving excuses to our partners; they work a lot, or they are busy.
If we switch the roles will he do the same? Will she pretend nothing happened?
If the answer is yes, thus you are safe.
If no is the answer, then the bells of red flags are waving. Are they?
Don’t misunderstand signs, don’t over-analyze things around you, focus on yourself and your beloved ones. Because sometimes all it takes is a sign from the universe that that person is your “the one” or just one of them.
Just keep believing that the difference in a partner is authorized. Sometimes it’s even further for both of you.
Diversity allows you to discover new things and to have an open mind on the other side.
This, combined with passion, is a brilliant combination to have a mature relationship. A kind of exchange where both parties accept the diversity and appreciate it as well.
Final thoughts
Love is not blind, but when you are deeply in love you just hide some truths, and you ignore it so that it works.
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This post was previously published on Medium.
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