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Women cheating has been a complicated issue says experts.
My ex-boyfriend discovered that I had cheated on him.
I had excuses at that time, though I felt guilt and grief.
We struggled to adjust after we found ourselves in a long-distance relationship. I was so lonely and felt abandoned, then I met someone new in our neighborhood, I was so excited and at least I had someone to keep me company.
When I went to visit my ex-boyfriend, I forgot to delete some of my WhatsApp messages. He later mistakenly read my messages and found out about my conversation with the guy in my neighborhood, and he exploded.
-A Facebook user.
Cheating can destroy one’s marriage and can prevent the ability to trust anybody in the future.
According to Kenneta Paul Rosenberg, M.D, author of Why Men and women cheat. He said.
“People cheat because of long distances, beliefs, personal problems, etc.
Dr. David Holmes, from Manchester Metropolitan University UK, carried out a study and found out that women these days have the potential to cheat more than men, unlike when it was widely believed that men are more vulnerable. This is because women are good at hiding secrets and you can hardly find out what’s going on with them unless they make a mistake and their secret is exposed.
However, he also stated that the main reason some women cheat include.
1. Sex (Unsatisfactory with marriage)
2. Lack of emotional care
3. Revenge
4. Boringness
5. sexual addiction.
Sex
This is one of the major reasons women cheat on their partners. Some are involved in extramarital affairs because they are not getting enough sex, they feel they are missing out on something.
However, some women don’t reach orgasm during sex with their partners, maybe because their partner has a small manhood, or he is not performing enough as expected.
Lack of Emotional care.
Women need constant attention and care from their partners. However, if their partner fails to show them affection, they may tend to look for attention elsewhere, by getting someone else that will fulfill those needs.
Revenge
Some women cheat on their spouse just to revenge, women like that have pride in cheating on their spouse because they see it as an option to get back at their cheating partner.
They feel sad and it affects their mood and ability to trust any man again and will want to make sure that the man who cheated on them feels the same way as they do.
Dr. Janne Lomaskey, a United States-based psychologist advised:
“Instead of cheating back is good to resolve the issue amicably and move on”
Boringness.
Some women feel that their new relationship is exciting, this is because their newfound lover tends to impress them with gifts and also provide everything their spouse could not afford.
Sexual Addition.
Psychologist, Dr. Bonke Omoteso said:
“Some women have abnormal sexual desire and that one man can’t satisfy them”
However, such women tend to cheat on their husbands
Dr. Bonke also pointed out that even though there is no scientific proof for such actions, There could also be some spiritual forces that could cause a woman to do so, just to destabilize the marriage
Disclaimer:
This write-up is for informational purposes only. You are free to agree or disagree with any piece of information in this article.
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