There is beauty in ugly things, and ugliness in beautiful things.
If you look hard enough, you will find whatever you want in anything.
Which do you look for?
Do you look for the perfections or flaws?
You will find them.
Since we can see whatever we want in this holographic world, what you naturally look for determines what you’ll find.
And what you find will determine your perspective, and shapes your interpretation of reality.
How you perceive reality can create whether you feel life is difficult or easy.
And your perceived ease of life shapes your joy and happiness.
So if your happiness is ultimately shaped by whether you look for the beauty or ugliness…
We get to decide what we look for and what we find, and how happy we are.
There are happy poor people, and miserable rich people.
There are attractive people who are miserable, and less attractive people who are happy.
We are the ultimate creators of our happiness.
Not the victims.
What you look for ultimately creates your world view.
You control it all.
You are never a victim of external factors.
You are only a victim of choices and decisions 100% within your control.
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This post was previously published on mikekitko.com.
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