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Shamelessness and Courage

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How can we tell if a person is showing true courage, and not recklessness or shamelessness?

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‘The First Rule is You Need to Be a Fighter and a Winner': The Conversation About The Man-Box Continues

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Inside the conversation at The Good Men Project.

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How to Stop Choosing Ambivalence

How to Stop by Quinn Dombrowski

You can’t make a choice, so you put it off, endlessly considering the pros and cons. But you’ve already made your choice—one that will keep you stuck and in pain forever.

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The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Good Bad Ugly by Nishanth Jois

Mary B. Sellers reminds we are all complex individuals encompassing both dark and light.

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Before You Call a Man a Creep—or Worse—Read This

Before You by mrhayata

Accusing a man of paedophilia can ruin his life. When you do it on social media, the effects are irreversible, and his innocence doesn’t matter.

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A Man Snaps a Selfie, and All Hell Breaks Loose on Facebook

A Man Takes by 757live tech

Naomi Fryers shares words of support for a Melbourne man falsely accused of being a creep and smeared on social media.

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Only the Bad Die Young

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A romantic longing for an enchanted world — where bad things only happen to bad people — has been a hallmark of health-conscious America for over a century.

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How an Article on Christian Purity Culture Is Still Affecting Me a Year Later

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Jonathan Delavan shares how an article published nearly a year ago on this website still impacts him today and has helped inspire him to start a new endeavor in his life.

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The Effect of the Man-Box on Joy

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There is a stereotype out there that guys are only interested in sex, sports and beer. Maybe that’s because those are man-box approved ways of expressing joy?

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How to Complain Without Hurting Your Partner

How to Complain by Gottman

All partners complain about each other’s behavior. But successful couples know how to make their points without making each other miserable.

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When Helping Others Hurts You

When Helping by Arturo J Paniagua

Helping others can be wonderfully rewarding. But when you take on their anxiety, you’re damaging yourself. Here are 5 red flags to watch out for.

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10 Things All White Folks Need to Consider about the #BaltimoreUprising

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As a White person, Jaime Utt is so frustrated in how so many of us are blaming people of Color for their own oppression and condemning them for expressions of grief and rage that make us uncomfortable and afraid. If you find yourself doing that, read this.

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Is Sherri Shepard Wrongly Being Forced Into Parenthood?

Sherri Sheperd

In a Utopian world, no person — male or female —would be forced into parenthood. However, as much as this may seem unfair, we must bear responsibilities for our actions.

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Why Comedy is Better than Philosophy

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Philosophy is good for you, but it tastes bad.

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Choosing Love Over Fear

Toine and Ron de Rond

For this survivor of the Nazi concentration camps, accepting an American into the family meant letting go of hurt and rage.

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Finding the Courage to Talk About Violence

Finding the Courage by Sasha Maksymenko

In the wake of Baltimore’s riots, Raoul Wieland explores the nature and implications of violence and the social disconnection that inflames it.

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